I found this helpful guys. If you don't know what Biblical attraction is supposed to look like or what God wants us to experience in intimacy try listening to this. This is one part of a series and the link below is the video focusing on physical intimacy which I think most directly applies to us in here. Thanks, God bless.
Nice! The Meeting House in Ontario has a really good series, too! https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/the-meeting-house/1-sex-and-identity-CizjME1J9nY/