Binging black pill content

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by StayClean&Proactive, Nov 24, 2022.

  1. StayClean&Proactive

    StayClean&Proactive Fapstronaut

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    I've became addicted to black pill videos on YouTube. Even to the point where I began paying one of my favorite black pill YouTubers for video requests.

    He made one video about how escorts are now rejecting average looking men and made another video about how it's over for average looking and sub 5 men. Hundreds upon hundreds of videos about how it's becoming harder for men. He also talked about how the only option for average looking men is repulsively unattractive women.

    I got a few face ratings from blackpillers and the lowest I've gotten was a solid 5. The average rating I've gotten is a 5.5 to a 6. This means I'm average looking, but I know I'll get worse and worse looking as I age. I also have Aspegers, which is known to cause inceldom in men.

    My black pill addiction has gotten so bad that I had a friend cut me off because I kept spewing black pill propaganda to him and I kept telling him about how he can't do certain things because he has autism (due to the blackpill). He's lower functioning than I am, but has a better social life than I do, due to his level of confidence.
     
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  2. pz15298

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    Don't let people tell you how the world works. Especially people on the internet like youtube. None of the 'blackpill' content creators you mentioned have any real life experience with women, all of their information they obtained from other content creators or from reading books on the internet.
    I'm speaking as a daygamer. Almost everything I thought I knew about women and everything people told me about women and relationship turned out to be proven wrong or at least challenged by real life experience.
    I'm a skinny south east Asian guy of below-averaged height. Now a blackpiller will probably say I'm the most disadvantaged group of men and there is some truth in that. But I decided to not listen to anyone and try to figure out the truth myself. I've been consistently going out with European women that I find attractive since I started daygame.
    The only way to truly understand how the world works is by going out there and experimenting. The necessary skills you need to get a head start you can learn it from doing cold approaches. PM if you want some help with detoxing yourself
     
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  3. StayClean&Proactive

    StayClean&Proactive Fapstronaut

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    Yeah man, I need a thorough detox.
     
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    At first I thought it was my looks, but I've had women come up to me and say that I was attractive, women my age too, not just family members or old people. But I've also been called ugly a lot too, especially by black women.

    I think the real reason why I have to fight so hard is because I have Aspergers. Autism causes a lot of traits that women find unattractive and a lot of men in the blackpill space happen to be on the spectrum.

    I knew a handful of ugly neurotypical men that pulled women in high school.
     
  5. You need to cut out this crap. It's all nonsense. Good-looks really isn't that important. Confidence, being a fun person to be around, social skills, and being considerate to people are much more important.
     
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  6. I have recently been to a mall and I've seen a lot of couples who are regular and normals based on the looks scale. You gotta lay off the internet and go out to socialize. Plenty of girls who are single ready to mingle.
     
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  7. Meshuga

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    No matter what hand life deals you, you can find people to tell you that you are at a disadvantage, and it’s unfair, and might as well not try. They are correct, to a point. There is no person who is universally advantaged for every situation. The problem is, these people turn their disadvantage into an excuse for why they aren’t successful. “I can’t read because they under funded my school district.” No, you don’t know how to read because you’re lazy and unmotivated and are more interested in complaining than you are in bettering yourself. Frederick Douglas taught himself to read by tricking white kids into telling him what sounds individual letters made. So when these black pill asshats complain about not being able to get laid, it’s the same thing. First of all, they’ve bought into the porn idea that “getting laid” is a good goal and a relatively easy one for attractive looking people. Second of all, they are ignoring people like Steve Buscemi. I’m not dealing with the shenanigans of posting a pic on this forum, just Google the name.
    “I can’t get a girlfriend because my face is ugly.” Bullshit. You can’t get a girlfriend because your attitude is ugly. Because you’ve made it into a self-fulfilling prophecy, by choosing to be resentful and make assumptions around something you know very little about. See, the face and the body are often the first things you can know about a person, and they are the least important things about what makes a good partner. Long term or short term. Women even seem to understand that intuitively a little better than men do. Then this small group of angry, insecure children claiming to be men want to reduce everyone’s value down to their physical appearance, and call all women, half the population, inherently shallow. I’d use words like “incredible” or “unbelievable,” but I’m experienced and jaded enough that I’ve ceased to wonder at human hypocrisy.

    Real life women, not the Instagram Dream Life Barbie THOTs the black pillers focus exclusively on, but the daughters, sisters, mothers, students, workers and consumers who constitute the actual female population spanning all ages and life circumstances, are attracted to all kinds of different aspects of men. They like a good looking guy, certainly. They also like a guy who can make them laugh, make them comfortable, make them see the world in a new, more detailed, some might say better way. They like a guy that can notice when she’s sad, or bored, or when the dishes need to be done. They always like confidence, but some emphatically dislike arrogance. They all generally like a combination of these, and more, traits, and what they value most varies from woman to woman and frankly can change from day to- scratch that. Minute to minute. They’re human beings, just like you, they are prone to changing their mind. You have to do two things. You have to identify and learn how to play to your strengths. And you have to get used to the idea that, even on your best day, when you are the best version of yourself, most women are not going to be into you. That’s okay, because you’re not looking for most women. You’re looking for one that works best for you because guess what? A symmetrical face and a large bra cup are not enough to know if she’s worth your time, either.

    You need a woman you can communicate with, that is, someone who can listen to you and you can understand. You need someone you can appreciate, and who appreciates you. Don’t run off valuing a certain makeup style, a certain body type, a certain attitude (then resenting those women for not paying attention to you), just because some asshole said they were valuable. A pretty face doesn’t make the sex any better. Exposed skin doesn’t even make sex more likely. It just means they want attention, and black pillers are just as guilty as the rest of giving it to them.

    I’m a reasonably good looking guy. I’m 6’1”, not Internet Dating Profile 6’1”, which is actually 5’8 1/2”. I’m in good shape, with visible abs and biceps. I have long lashes, and pretty blue eyes. I’m also a porn addict with PE, ADD, and an honest to god personality disorder. I am definitely not a good person to have a one night stand with, and probably not good for a relationship, either. If I can be like that, think about what could be wrong with all the young women who look attractive and dress for attention. What kind of shortcomings and insecurities are they compensating for, that they feel the need to present like that? They could be boring. Maybe the only thing they watch is Kardashians and home improvement shows. They could be mean, selfish people who hate dogs, or cats, or whatever animal(s) you are into, or maybe they’re obsessively into animals that you’re not. They could even be legitimately crazy, like I am. Meantime, that overweight girl with the skin problem might be smart, honest, thoughtful, and have reasonably good opinions on why Star Trek TNG is the best Star Trek, as well as solid political philosophy and a well adjusted outlook on life.

    Stop with the black pill, because it makes all people less than what they should be. Stop giving them money, which only encourages them, but even more so stop giving them your time. It’s poisoning you, skewing your world view, taking just the tiniest shard of truth and distorting it into something awful and ugly.
     
  8. viktraaa

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    "Don't let people tell you how the world works"- I agree with that
     
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  9. StayClean&Proactive

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    Like I've said, I think it's Asperger's screwing me over, not my looks.
     
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  10. Hoooo-rah!! Yes....what she said, boiz! Can't improve on LB's bluntness.
     
  11. loneloan

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    in this case ,you should be more childish. say to yourself that youre the greatest face genius. Dismiss the world,revel in yourself. youre getting into a swamp of mental afflictions. blackpill has produced no real empirical research,its literally a bunch of fornicators finding out who fornicates with whom.
    Imagine if a blackpiller run society as a president...we would all go extinct over congenital diseases
     
  12. Many a laughs.
     
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  14. mashedpotatoes

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    I relate to this.
     
  15. Well, when it really comes down to it, Asperger’s doesn’t have to be a label you put on yourself.

    So you might act a little different than average people… but, you are still able to think logically right?

    If you can think logically, then you can apply logical thinking to a lot of situations.

    Also, what’s so bad about dating a girl who is a 5? If every girl in the whole world shaved her head and wore the exact same clothes, they wouldn’t look THAT different, same with guys

    so the levels of attractiveness in women are not as spread out as initial perception would tell us
     
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  16. ThunderTiger

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    You got face ratings from dudes. You're also getting advice from people who gave up
     
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  17. Meshuga

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    @echofriendly I need some clarification. What is the point you’re making here?
     
  18. I let everyone make it themselves.
     
  19. StayClean&Proactive

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    I did get a few face ratings from women and they also ranked me average.
     
  20. Meshuga

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    That isn't how conversations work.
     

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