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bitterness, anger, recognition

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by impuls666, Oct 2, 2020.

  1. impuls666

    impuls666 New Fapstronaut

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    hey there,

    Im on like week 3 of nofap, at work Im getting super productive, but sometimes I get too much into people pleasing mode, so much that it gets me sometimes angry when I see how other people are so slow or lazy and that I need to do their work, cause they can't think so clearly or are just too dumb. Maybe I am developing some kind of god complex or whatever. From that anger comes bitterness and I dont want to talk about some random dinner conversations and I am always thinking about work and what could I improve, so every day conversations about life with my coworkers get me bored, and don't really want to talk about random life topics. Sometimes at work I feel that people are having good time with each other, laughing at stupid jokes, but Im kinda not into it and feeling left out and they talk to me only when they need help with something. Im also doing no weed, no alcohol, no cofeine. So Im becoming this super serious person, who can't laugh at stupid dinner table group jokes, and gets border from random life conversations. Any advice ? :)
     
  2. JoeinUSA

    JoeinUSA Fapstronaut

    Hey, it sounds like you're on a good, strong, and serious recovery path Great!

    When you talk about "pleasing mode...that gets you angry," do you mean with family members or personal close friends, specifically, or are you generally taking about bosses above you or coworkers on your level?

    When you say "god complex," what do you feel like you're trying to control? And/or, in what ways are you thinking of yourself as superior to others? Do you think it's justified?
     

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