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(BlackPill) Do you hate yourself? If you guys don't stop relapsing, it will be over for you

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by goodnice 3.0, Jul 3, 2020.

  1. goodnice 3.0

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    Is this you?
    "I hate myself so much. I'm ugly, I'm stupid, I'm a piece of sh**. I f***** hate myself. If i was good looking that would probably change everything. I wish i was pretty. I'm just fing ugly and worthless. I hate myself"

    This doesn't have to be you. You can change this. This was me before I will admit^ Im so thankful God rescued me. However, you must realize that it will take some time to recover of course, but recovery is possible. Full mental and physical wellbeing can be attained again if only you stop relapsing. You must realize that practically speaking, you are the sum of your actions. What you consistently do is what you will become.

    2 years ago, the scales fell off my eyes and I couldn't believe how low I had sunk. I had sunk to the abyss, rock bottom, but I was oblivious to it until that moment when I was shaking with rage. How had I reached this point, how did i get here

    Now, it is a NIGHT and DAY difference after nofap, improving my physical and mental health, building a relationship with God, growing so much in every way. I am so thankful that I grew AWARENESS which gave me motivation to change. I am giving you all this same awareness.

    It will be over for you, the longer you delay, the more pain you are bringing on yourself. I wish you would take nofap as serious as life and death. You all gotta take this seriously. You will drown in your lust and become nothing. All you will have to look back on is years of filthy images and a blur of smut, lust, naked body parts, disgust, and shame. All of your self confidence will deteriorate, you will be so empty, full of regret, and there will be nothing left for you to do but to weep and mourn

    This is URGENT!!! Your self confidence, self esteem, physical appearance, frame, face, body, attractiveness, mental health, future, job prospects, your whole life will be affected. That is a guarantee. It is like everything is connected to this. Why?

    1 Corinthians 6:18 holds the answer: "Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body."

    Idk how many stories I have read of guys just looking back at their lives of pmo and crying and crying wishing they could turn back the clock.

    I am desperately wanting you (reader) to open your eyes. Realize there is massive potential to change, to improve. Even if you are 37 years old even if you are 47 years old. Of course the earlier the better. Realize there is a new you that is possible. No matter where you have been and what you have done, God can make you a brand new creation. Stop wallowing in the mud, and do everything you can to stop PMO
     
  2. hey ! i really liked your post. i would like to tell you a bit about myself. in my very early childhood years i didnt really know what type of body women had and was really curious to know what it was like inside their pants. My curiosity got the better of me. One day in 2014 i was searching to fulfill my curiosity and came across a porn video and then i got to knew everything. It was unlike any feeling i ever had, it felt really awesome. fast forward to 2020, it doesnt feel awesome anymore, it feels like being an utter slave to my own mind. it feels like shit. masturbating gave me a lot of serious health problems. I wanted to stop this habit of porn since 2017 but i wasnt really able to succeed. But 2 weeks ago i found nofap and it changed everything. Till now i didnt share this problem to anyone but now when i share my experiences with the nofap community, it feels great. I started masturbating when i was just 12 but now i am 16 and i havent masturbated for more than 2 weeks now and i havent felt this great in a long time.
     
  3. goodnice 3.0

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    Hey little bro! Thanks so much for sharing, that takes a lot of guts. I am so glad you opened up about this. And feel free to message me, there is so much I could share with you that could help you. You know, just knowledge, awareness, self improvement tips, etc

    Ya masturbating tends to do that (give you serious health problems). It completely destroyed my health. I know the "doctors" and health experts say differently, but know and be 100% assured that they are lying to you. Sadly, they are either ignorant (don't know better), or they are straight up lying (which is evil). Most if not almost all young teenagers these days suffer the brutal consequences and do not come to the knowledge of the truth until YEARS go by and they have severely damaged their bodies through excessive porn and masturbation.

    Everything will be changed my friend. I am so glad you feel better after 2 weeks and feel free to reach out to me. I have had several 90+ day streaks and nofap will completely change you in every way and turn you into the real man, the hero you want to become. Be encouraged, and do not be led astray by what the world says about pmo. You have found the truth, and at such a young age. That is a blessing for sure. I actually found out about nofap at age 15, but I lingered, and was confused by so many differing opinions and deceitful lies. it wasn't until age 18 that i began to search for truth and found it

    Seek and you will find, ask and you will receive. The truth will set you free:)
     
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  4. Thank you very much for providing such kind hearted support. I will definitely talk to you when i will be in need of help. I'll stick around in this thread if you need my help too. good luck !
     
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  5. Address007

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    Overcoming a PMO addiction is definitely a great first (and possibly biggest) step, but most of us here need a complete lifestyle change, and in order to create that change, you need a holistic approach. Now the great thing about abstaining from porn and masturbation is you'll notice yourself becoming a much more motivated person. That is your dopamine receptors re-sensitizing itself to normalcy, and as a result, you'll find it much easier to become the person you want.
     
  6. goodnice 3.0

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    definitely true. Without abstinence, you probably won't have the motivation to do all the other things that are also helpful for you
     
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  7. Please pray for me, man!

    Have you checked this guy out before? https://watchmansbagpipes.blogspot.com/search/label/About Me
     
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  8. goodnice 3.0

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    Arrrrr, ye be a fine pirate
     
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    no i dont hate myself just because i have an addiction, that is not going to do any help, only make it worse and demotivate
     
  11. Vercent is right. Also goodnice just got suspended. I wonder what are his thoughts about that.
     
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  12. Blackpill is a very interesting topic, and I've written about it extensively. Personally, I prefer the chill pill.
     
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    Why did he got suspended?
     
  14. We don't ask those kinds of questions here.
     
  15. S'mores and Brimstone

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    You know that self hating feeling that we feel post jerk? Ever feel that same defeat in your hindsight after you've been a sweaty contrarian on the internet? I have. Your ties to pill talk and fighting the soros elves hints you might suffer that tension brought on by play-by-play monitoring every controversial happening in our current sphere of politics. Do think that becoming hyper invested into interwebz current events is another addiction that can come post gaming, post fapping, etc? I feel like were climbing a mountain and fapping is only the first hill. In fact, this is kind of a christian thread that goodnice started here so I'll go ahead and bring up that life feels so much like Dante's inferno and the way how we navigate through all the sins. I think the order has pride as the gravest and most difficult sin to defeat. Lust is on the other end of the spectrum and is the first sin the overcome. I like this post. I hope they unban the son of a gun.
     
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  16. goodnice 3.0

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    hey there friend. I wasnt advocating hating yourself, and looking back at my OP, it sounds kinda bad. Sorry about that, my main point is that we should take nofap seriously, because it can really help us in all aspects of life, especially it can help many ppl out of the cloud of self hatred and loathing they feel.

    Did I say you weren't a confident, good looking, and smart guy? No, I was merely trying to address people who did feel that way. If you don't feel that way, then great!
     
  17. WELCOME BACK MY FRIEND !
     
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  18. goodnice 3.0

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    Thanks my friend, its nice to see someone show some kindness
     
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