Yesterday I hit day 30 of no PMO (!), which was obviously pretty exciting. I’ve been going out with someone I really like for the last few weeks. We’d kissed only once before, and not for very long. Yesterday we were just hanging out outside laying on a picnic blanket and started making out and getting really close. Since it’s been 30 days with no PMO, I got pretty aroused pretty quickly, and there was even a good bit of precum, though it was really just making out and a little bit of cuddling. A little bit later, when things had calmed down, I noticed that I had some seriously blue balls, to the point that it was noticeably pretty uncomfortable for several hours. I was planning on trying to do 90 days no PMO, but I feel like maybe if that is going to keep happening, I just need to start MO again, just thinking about this person and other real life experiences rather than P. Wondering if anyone else has had this dilemma before, and what you think I should do?