BURNING sexual attraction to one of my old crushes. Can I try again? If so, how?

She's so hot man. The even better thing is other people don't think so. I asked my friends and one of them said she looks weird, the other says she's ugly, and the other says she's not ugly but she's not hot either.

Well I think she's super super hot. I want her so bad man...I am a sophomore and she's a freshman in high school.

I start getting aroused just by the thought of her. I had to break nofap yesterday because of this...I mean I just started on two days ago and yesterday I fapped...I am not addicted to porn or anything, but I just don't want to fap regardless so I can increase my testosterone levels which will make me more attractive and make me more motivated to talk to girls

Well anyway, I met her at this tennis club a few months ago. She doesn't go there anymore. She's in my lunch though, but not in any of my classes. After some light contact and flirtation (me calling her cute and stuff), I asked her out a couple of months ago for a lunch date and she said, "Uhhh...maybe...sure..." but then the next day I tried to clarify what she meant and then she was like, "I don't know...maybe...we'll see."

This was about 2 months ago. I am crushing on her again now...hard...and I am thinking the reason she might have turned me down was pressure from her friends (I noticed her friends were sort of...) and I would do better if I invited her to do something outside of lunch so she wouldn't have to leave her table of friends to talk to me, which might have been a factor in her uneasisiness.

I am thinking about giving it another go. Contact has been almost zero between now and 2 months ago when she did the whole "maybe" thing. I am thinking about starting to talk to her again and giving it another try.

If so, how? Should I just strike up a conversation about tennis, for example, since she plays, then flirt with her in order to let her know that I am physically attracted to her, and then ask for her number?

Or should I not try again? Other people have told me that I can give it another go. She never really said "no" and she may have just been uneasy about the whole lunch thing since I see her having a really good time with her friends and she would rather meet up with me at a different time?

 

Thanks man. Nice to hear that it seems viable to try again (other people on other boards also said it's okay in this situation to give it another go). I mean she never flat-out rejected me and besides, she's WAY too hot to not give it another go anyway.

I am on nofap for real now. I have made a thread here (which is awaiting approval) as well as on other boards I post on about my commitment to nofap until I get a girlfriend, no matter how horny I am. No matter how much her presence or my thoughts of her arouse me, I am not going to give in this time.

You're right. That's exactly why I am NoFap. This will motivate me to go for girls more by eliminating the option to satisfy myself sexually unless I succeed in getting a girlfriend.

It's sort of like a "win or die" or in this case, "win or starve (sexually)" situation I am setting up for myself. It's analogous to this story Jad T Jones shares: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=914bvL2xKlA&feature=youtu.be&t=3m47s

And you know there are other benefits as well, which all essentially will make me more attractive to girls.