Bye,fap. AND NEVER SEE YOU AGAIN!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Bobby Wong, Jan 19, 2020.

  1. Bobby Wong

    Bobby Wong Fapstronaut

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    Hmmm.
    Actually, just 1hour ago,I was fapping......
    It is a great fight, really.
    I am bored with fap,and I promised to myself I would be the best person that I could be.
    Of course,this will be the last time I come with bad news.
    In a word,I am ready to live again.
    Hoping my thread can be in [successful stories] next time......
     
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  2. Mr. 94 feet

    Mr. 94 feet Fapstronaut

    I will be there to read it.
     
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  3. Uncomfortably Numb

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    Good luck... stay vigilant at all times
     
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  4. Joe1023

    Joe1023 Fapstronaut

    It's great to stay positive, but don't expect to never ever relapse again, just PLAN on not relapsing again. I think expecting perfection, especially with an addiction like this one, is only setting yourself up for failure and disappointment. Especially only one hour after your last relapse.

    Best of luck, man!!
     
  5. I found this point to be really helpful. I managed more than 60 days my first go, but the second time I put too much pressure on myself. This time I am going to use your advise. I am going to plan NOT to use, but I am not going to put expectations on myself.
     
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  6. @Wang Shamir good luck. Even if you have a short time since a relapse, you have the right intention and that is half way there.
     
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  7. Bobby Wong

    Bobby Wong Fapstronaut

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    Thanks a lot:)
     
  8. Bobby Wong

    Bobby Wong Fapstronaut

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    I will.Thanks!
     
  9. Bobby Wong

    Bobby Wong Fapstronaut

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    I am trying.
    Thanks!!!
     
  10. Bobby Wong

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    Good luck
     
  11. StonePlacidity

    StonePlacidity Fapstronaut

    Remember to pull up a great fight with your urge next time when you have it!;)
     
  12. Bobby Wong

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    Thanks.
    But bad luck is I did fap again......
    Just today......
    Giving up fapping again.
    At most do it a month later.
    Come on,man.
     
  13. Bobby Wong

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    IWILLDOMYBEST
     
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  14. Bobby Wong

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    Hmmmm...
    I found sometimes I can't control myself at all.
    So I did fap for quite many times in these days...
    So...
    I am trying to change my way.
    I will strongly expect myself not to fap again,but step by step.
    Then make the time between fap longer and longer.
    At last, give it up.
    And get out of this addition.
    SO,GOOD LUCK TO ME.
     
  15. Joe1023

    Joe1023 Fapstronaut

    So here's the thing about quitting this addiction. This isn't like nicotine where a person needs to slow down before they stop. This is something that we need to absolutely stop altogether. There is no slowing down. To slow down is to not stop. Its sounds like you're giving yourself some slack to FAP here and there and if that's the case, I wouldn't expect you to beat this addiction. You also need to get some accountability if you don't already have it. As much as you can.
     
  16. mkguy27

    mkguy27 Fapstronaut

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    Hi I’m new to the site, porn addiction has got me into places I wished it hadn’t but I am getting better
     
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  17. gingeralan

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    One day (or even second) at a time, don’t give yourself a challenge that seems too big, you’ll just feel disappointed.

    If you get an urge just sit with it, if you get through that, it’s. a success , if you give in, it’s only a learning a experience and you can use this unto make your future days better.
     
  18. mkguy27

    mkguy27 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you so much, it’s been 24 days since I fapped or looked at porn
     
  19. mkguy27

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    I have some very difficult days ahead of me given the dark places it’s taken me.
     
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  20. Bobby Wong

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    All right.
    Give it up and never go back.
    Step by step.
    First,stop doing porn.
    Then,do something to change.
    Here I go.
    I think I found the reason why I should stop now but not slow down.
    It has never been a good deal at all since I started it.
    Thanks a lot,Joe.:)
     

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