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Can Autogynephilia weaken?

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Penninesandcheviots, Apr 14, 2020.

  1. Penninesandcheviots

    Penninesandcheviots Fapstronaut

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    Is there a way to weaken Autogynephilia and return normal heterosexuality to dominance?

    (For those of you who are unaware, Autogynephilia is the sexual attraction to the thought of being female/fulfilling sexual female roles, it is a paraphilia)

    I truly believe I have AGP, after spending months digging through my sexual experiences throughout life, and some of my earliest sexual awakenings. I'm certain AGP is what is responsible for my sissy/trap fetish. I always knew it was odd, that many people wanted to be the giver when it came to traps - I always wanted to *be* the trap, and I can recall self-inserting as the women in porn for most of my life.

    My question is this, is it possible for AGP to weaken? And for my normal heterosexuality to return to dominance? I know that I have been a normal heterosexual in my life, I can remember falling in love with girls, and being excited to have sex with them, not to be them. I remember how enamoured I was with my girlfriend when we first got together and fell in love.

    However recently, my sexuality has been dominated by a sissy/trans/AGP fetish. The only thing that has really turned me on this year so far is the idea of feminising myself, transitioning and "becoming" a woman and fulfilling a submissive female role in sex. I have been unwittingly feeding this side of my sexuality with PMO my whole life to the point where it is now dominant, and I worry that I have done permanent damage to myself.

    It has become so bad that now i'm scared to just be aroused because whenever I am aroused I begin to convince myself that i'm trans and must transition to become a woman. I know I can't do this, the damage this would do to my relationships, to my mental and physical health would be extreme. Transitioning for sexual gratification is absolutely not an option here. However I can't deny that I have these urges. It's very easy to make grand promises to myself that I will stop entertaining this, and i'll get over it - but when i'm in the midst of these urges and the lines become muddy it's honestly terrifying.

    I want to know, what is the "prognosis" for this. I am fully aware AGP does not just vanish, whatever I have done to cause this, I can't undo it. But I hope I can find a way to weaken it, and allow my natural heterosexuality to become dominant again so I can move on with my life and stop obsessing over this.
     
  2. ankith

    ankith Fapstronaut

    Hey dude, we have talked about this earlier itself, but I am saying it again. Stop fantasizing about that, I mean don't resist it like some burden. Cut the thoughts, keep your mind numb most of the time. Whenever the thoughts arise, take deep breaths, don't try to even think about them for a few seconds, divert yourself. I know there are less articles about people coming out of paraphilias, because these addictions are something which have come up recently, I mean for a long time, porn addictions weren't accepted as addictions by many doctors, so we have less stories about people opening up. But people might have overcome these disorders. Why don't you succeed and be that example? Why don't you prove it that AGP can be overcome. I also have one of the paraphilias like I said before, but I am trying to overcome it, I want to set an example to everyone in life. So even you can do it man, just believe in yourself, don't research more into it, just cut off all the thoughts, researching is also a trigger, so be careful. Good luck.

    P.S: Sorry If I offended you, I didn't mean to offend, I just want you to get out of the thinking process. but read this success story, it describes perfectly about the OCD.

    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/5-years-struggle-severe-hocd-transexual-porn.129195/
     
    Last edited: Apr 15, 2020
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  3. fedmom

    fedmom Fapstronaut

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    Like I say it's sexual masochism so if you try the method and find it feels stressful it will probably work.
     
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