Can I have sex with someone?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by ZarefV2, Jan 13, 2020.

  1. ZarefV2

    ZarefV2 Fapstronaut

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    Hi fellow Nofappers,

    I have question, I have almost 50 days without PMO and I wonder can I have sex with a girl I met on Tinder or is it a risk on my progress?
     
  2. CodeTalker

    CodeTalker Fapstronaut

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    Some people says it’s better to wait after 90 days to reboot.
     
  3. hollyman

    hollyman Fapstronaut

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    becarefull of tinder tho

    it's better to wait until marriage and do it with your legal spouse
     
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  4. Submariner

    Submariner Fapstronaut

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    I would follow your guts (;)) and do what you think is best. Ask yourself if your ready, excited and confident enough?
     
  5. ZarefV2

    ZarefV2 Fapstronaut

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    I know Tinder its dangerous. But I like to have contact with women. I don't want to be alone anymore
     
  6. hollyman

    hollyman Fapstronaut

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    be patient

    your rush on woman might be sign of cure process too, don't too hesitate, search for relevant source on this forum or ask some one with 200 day of nofap

    be patient for marriage is better
     
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  7. thelitfit1

    thelitfit1 Fapstronaut

    In my honest opinion, yes, have sex with a woman. It helps to rewire the brain towards real-life physical connections as opposed to pixels on a screen. But, I also appreciate the dudes who go monk mode and totally cut out women. Choice is yours. Both are great.
     
  8. SlavicLad

    SlavicLad Fapstronaut

    I'd say that you'd better not do it.
    You'll probably crave the connection with a woman even more afterwards, and it might be dangerous for you.
     
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  9. muhagg

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    It depends on how you decided to do NoFap if you want to quit PM then sex would be ok.I don't see it as damaging to the process.The goal is to quit porn not sex.As for me personally I am going to wait until I finish the 90 days challenge.
    stay strong
     
  10. rroseselavy

    rroseselavy Fapstronaut

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    I am asking myself similar questions. I am new to these nofap challenges and have thus far set myself a 30days w/o PMO (Hard Mode) challenge. I will then continue w/o PM (Standard Mode) for a further 60days, allowing myself to sleep with people again in the process. I am also not really paying too much attention on the counter as I am learning to listen to my body and emotions.

    I feel that the benefits of real human interactions over-weigh those of complete abstinence but understand that it is different for everyone in their own struggles and journeys. OP i think it could be good for you to have sex at this point, although tinder may not be the best solution...

    Has anyone else varied between modes during their journeys here?
     

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