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Can I properly heal PIED with “normal mode”?

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Blusunman, Feb 7, 2020.

  1. Blusunman

    Blusunman Fapstronaut

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    I started nofap and pretty much met a girl right away and we started dating. We had successful sex about 19 days into my reboot and I’m now a couple of month in my reboot but I have been having sex a couple times a week since then.

    before nofap I could never get erect to have sex, now my penis seems to work when my girlfriend and I have sex, but my refractory period is long and it takes a while for me to get my libido back after orgasm, maybe a day or two.

    so far, my erections have been fine. And things are working for the most part doing normal mode. Will I properly heal if I continue my sexual relationship with my girlfriend while forever abstaining from porn and masturbation?
     
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  2. p1n1983

    p1n1983 Fapstronaut

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    I´m not an expert but in my breves streaks of no P or M my little buddy get harderd for real sex and i it´s easier to O.
    Real sex are the pathways you want to get stronger and PMO the ones to get weaker.
    Keep at it!
     
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  3. Blusunman

    Blusunman Fapstronaut

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    thanks for the reply! That’s what I think as well. I’m just wondering because a lot of people seem to think hard mode is the superior way to recover but hard mode completely leaves out the rewording to real partners aspect so how can it be superior to normal mode? The problem seems to be compulsive porn and masturbation. So in my mind if i abstain from those activities and continue having healthy sex, I should recover in the same way, no? Healthy sex didn’t cause our problems so there’s no reason why it should hold us back or hinder our recovery. Though I could be wrong
     
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  4. You're right! Soft mode reboot is the way for us, sex is good! Our goal is to cure PIED and quit p0rn, not semen retention like some people on here.
     
  5. Galaxian21

    Galaxian21 Fapstronaut

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    Yes, of course it works. The problem was not sex, it was watching porn for hours and messing up your brain. The longer you ignore the fake stuff that was messing you up, the more you will enjoy the real thing.
     
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