Can I recover / rewire from PIED without a girl? I'm a virgin and want to wait till marriage

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Basheer99, Nov 27, 2019.

  1. Basheer99

    Basheer99 Fapstronaut

    I'm having PIED since March 2018. Started MO when I was 7 or 8 y/o and PMO since I was 17 y/o. I never had sex (didn't use some opportunities intentionally). I'm doing NoPMO to recover from PIED.

    I'm wondering if I can do recovery without a girl, as I want to wait till I'm married.
     
  2. I honestly think that unless you have had the experience of getting bored during sex, you can't really say that you have PIED. With that said, why do you say that you are struggling with it? Being a virgin and all. I didn't lose mine until I was almost 24, and I'm nearly a decade older than that now. I didn't have problems with PIED until recent years, and I attributed that to getting older. However, I think the abuse of PMO has contributed to that, and it's quite embarrassing.

    I believe the best thing you can do is keep on the right track and quit the PMO. Also, when the time comes, relax. Being nervous is natural, but it's really no big deal.
     
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  3. Basheer99

    Basheer99 Fapstronaut

    I said I PIED because I don't get aroused without P, and there were few times I didn't get aroused by porn. PIED people don't get aroused by natural stimuli like real girls. I think being virgin has nothing to with that.

    I have read some posts by people who recovered from PIED recommending re-wiring / being intimate with a girl to cure PIED. I was just wondering if I can do that with out a girl.

    I understand from your post that I can cure PIED with NoPMO and there is no need to be intimate with a girl. Correct me if I'm wrong.

    Thank you.
     
  4. Okay, I understand where you are coming from. Honestly, I have experienced that before. It's almost like you are bored with it, but you're so conditioned to it that you do it anyway. Now, imagine that happening when you are being intimate with your partner... Not good for your confidence, I assure you. I'm just getting started with this whole process, so I really hope that it helps, and that it's really PMO that's the problem.
     
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