Can I send nudes?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by TheMan333, Jan 14, 2019.

  1. TheMan333

    TheMan333 Fapstronaut

    can I send nudes without receiving? I have a friend with benefits, that I told her I’m on nofap, but she still asks for nudes. Can I send her?
  2. RightEffort

    RightEffort Fapstronaut

    Have you tried to ask within for answer?

    What does your gut feeling say???

    mine says....

    Do to others what you want others do unto you.

    If you don't think looking at nudes is beneficial to you, then I would avoid feeding others addiction.
  3. I'mJustAChoice

    I'mJustAChoice Fapstronaut

    Nah, I'd say to her: "the real thing is here for you whenever you want it ;)". Don't send pics, you never know where those end up.
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  4. By sending her the real deal instead of nudes, you'll be sending her a NUDES (Not Useless Dude; Exceptional Spouse) material. Sorry, at school, I'm known as the pun-maker; making around 10 original puns and jokes everyday in class, which annoys my friends (in a good way, hahaha).
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  5. RamboErecto

    RamboErecto Fapstronaut

    This is my opinion:

    During the time i use apps like Tinder, sometimes i get erections, since my brain asociates images on a screen with sex. Tons of times i masturbated to the mobile.

    If send nudes makes you high, then you are reciving anti natural stimuli. So if send nudes gives you urges or get you horny, is not good.
  6. Abetterbrain

    Abetterbrain Fapstronaut

    Personally, if I was trying to have a more natural and less impulsive sex life I would decline. Just meet up and have real, healthy sex.

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  7. Mr Sitter

    Mr Sitter Fapstronaut

    As someone who used to do this frequently, my answer is no. Sending nudes is a form of exhibitionism, which is just another form of escalation of uncontrolled sexual desires. Same effect on your brain as watching porn.
  8. Clarke

    Clarke Fapstronaut

    Go for it bucko. But if shes a fwb why aren't you just fucking her? It's called nofap for a reason, so just don't have her give you a handjob.
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  9. IgorB

    IgorB Fapstronaut

    No. Stay strong.
  10. I’ve not thought about this. I sometimes send pics, rarely, to sites to get comments on. Dick pics. I guess it’s not good... I need to stop it then. If it’s wrong.
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  11. Mattsfreedom

    Mattsfreedom Fapstronaut

    LOFL. Do you send comments? Like "Hey does my dick look ok? Please comment and tell me if its big enough. Thanks.:)" LOFL
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  12. No comments from me lol. Just thank you’s Lol. I just share it. It’s a nice looking D lol. But in all seriousness, it needs to stop. I’m not doing that anymore.
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  13. Mattsfreedom

    Mattsfreedom Fapstronaut

    LoL I hear ya. There's really no need to seek approval from someone else about your dick. That may be some self seeking approval behavior going on there. Maybe work on your own self confidence instead of seeking approval of others. Anyways I thought it was a good laugh I hope my previous post didn't embarrass you in any way. Best of luck to you.
  14. No you’re fine. I have good self confidence. The reason for the posting is more of an exhibitionist thing. Like, here’s my dick, enjoy it lol.

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