Can not control my subconscious mind during the night

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by bayern12, Jul 17, 2018.

  1. bayern12

    bayern12 Fapstronaut

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    hello my friends. Im into the 65 day of my reboot. I had an porn addiction, regarding Femdom. Good news is that I have 0% urges towards that shit anymore.

    The problem is that I dream about this shit at night, and wake up with a boner.
    My conscious mind can not override my subconscious mind during the night!!
    IT DRIVES ME CRAZY. THAT IS NOT ME ANYMORE! F****G BRAIN!!!

    please help. meditation? how to I Urge my conscious mind to override my subconscious mind during the night?!
     
  2. Porn Free Wanderer

    Porn Free Wanderer Fapstronaut

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    If you've been a porn addict for a long time, it's going to take more than 65 days to completely rewire your brain. The fact that your subconscious mind is doing this shit at night is a sign that you're healing (believe it or not), but your brain is resisting the change. This is completely natural, and may continue for a while yet. Your brain doesn't want to change, because it's busy regulating the basic functions of your body and it's trying to avoid the extra workload.

    The most important thing now is not to give in to the urges. In time, your brain will adapt to the new reality and the urges will diminish. Staying away from porn completely will make it happen faster, despite the temptations to do the exact opposite.

    No, we can't accurately tell you how long this will take.
     
  3. bayern12

    bayern12 Fapstronaut

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    I dont have any urges during the day. IM OVER THIS. I hope one year from now my brain will view that as same as me during the day. Because as for now, at night my brain is being the old me, with the old way of thinking that porn is the solution for my problems.
     

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