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Can only have Sex with emotional feelings?

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by VIXU, Mar 31, 2022.

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  1. Mar 31, 2022 #1
    VIXU

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    Im writing this post, because im trying to find some clarity.

    If I meet up with my open relationship partner, I need some time to get in the mood. I cant have sex directly and to be honest thats annoying me.

    I tried having sex with another girl, but my little thing wouldnt get up. I havent really found something about that matter on the internet.

    What opinion do you guys have?
    What can I do?
     
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  2. Mar 31, 2022 #2
    IGY

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    Why are you trying to have sex with someone other than "my girl"?
     
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  3. Mar 31, 2022 #3
    VIXU

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    We have an open relationship its easier to explain it like that. But yeah I guess I could have chosen different words
     
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  4. Mar 31, 2022 #4
    IGY

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    OK.

    There is a group of people referred to as demisexual. Demisexual people only feel sexually attracted to someone when they have an emotional bond with the person. The prefix “demi” means half — which can refer to being halfway between sexual and asexual.
     
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  5. Aug 1, 2022 #5
    WilliamTheChristian

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    I think having sex with only emotional feelings is actually a very good thing. There are many times when I waste time with women who are not interested in me. If I traded my attraction for bodies with an attraction for feelings, then I'd probably not be struggling so much with sexual issues. I feel like I live in a society where I'm expected to like a woman for her looks rather than for her feelings towards me. But then again, some people are good at faking their emotions.
     
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  6. Aug 2, 2022 #6
    fumaruu

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    You are not supposed to have sex with every girl. So there's nothing wrong with you. That's a very good thing actually
     
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