I get that but that's not a concern for me. It happened because I fancied the girl a lot. If it was an any ol' random woman, I doubt it would have happened. I've been in bed with girls I REALLY like and felt nothing below the waist when I was PMOing every other day; even after 20 mins of kissing and touching, dead dick! I'll take raging boners all day long. For me, it's nothing to be embarrassed about at all. Just don't announce that you have one haha.