Can someone advice on best ways to overcome extreme fetishes such as Futanari, etc.

Feelin' · Mar 27, 2023

Lustful addictions have been a part of me since my early adolescence hood. I have been particularly addicted to the Futanari genre for the past 2 years and it remained strong as ever. Hence, I still haven't been able to overcome it. This addiction led me to commit to self-abusive activities (masturbation, pre-cum ejaculation, etc.) compulsively. I need some good tips to abstain from these lusty temptations.

Some brief info about me:

My personality type is INFP.

I have intense glossophobia.

I am a devoutly religious person (but when it comes to strong sexual urges I usually get deviated from the rightful path).

I just developed a responsibility to work on my physical well-being.

I pray steadfastly on the right timings.

I am a self-taught artist.

I have so many ambitions ahead that are yet to be achieved (such as writing a Philosophical manga).

I am an avid Manga Reader (Seinen genres only).

I enjoy animes like Vinland Saga (that does not involve lustrous content).

I have a strong urge to marry a woman of my desire (but I don't have enough strength and valid justifications to discuss this matter with my parents).

At the same time, I have a fear of marrying (because you are confined to becoming a responsible person with good financial status).

I have a fear of confronting real-life problems (such as financially supporting my family).

An0nym0use1234 · Mar 27, 2023

The best answer is the simple one: in order to reduce/eliminate these fetishes, you need to stop looking at and masturbating to porn. Withdrawals are severe, so be prepared and try to find healthy ways to stay busy like exercising, meditating, reading, going outside on walks, hanging out with good friends, etc.

Exercise is very important, and if you can get a gym membership, I highly recommend it.

Also, try thinking about these fetishes, why you have them, and what that means about you. Try to accept this without allowing yourself to feel any shame or come up with excuses for it.

As humans, we are all sexual beings. Our biology makes us vulnerable to becoming addicted to dopamine-reward traps like porn.

loneloan · Mar 30, 2023

I think its a bit unfair you NEED to have a certain level of wealth to marry. At least in *traditional* catholicism, the ole' days, lust was seen as such a monster than people more or less needed to be married ASAP.
anyways tho, futanari isnt extreme. its common place. its still bad, of course, and even can be said to trivialzie the plight of real humans with gender dysphoria.
never feel pity for yourself, dont fall pride once you get better, keep in touch with family and be up-front honest 100%

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