my fiancé and I are working on honesty.... or I should say he is working on being honest. Yesterday we were talking about how difficult this has been for him. He let me know that in the past 3 months certain sexual thoughts have finally started to go away. I asked what he meant. He told me that before he was having a hard time with undressing women in his mind and imagining sex but in the past 3 months he notices this happens less and less. I applaud his honesty. He never once let me know this was a problem for him. Now I feel as if my engagement ring is a sham. I accepted it believing he had changed. I knew he had quit porn in October and had one slip up in February but he never spoke about this problem until yesterday. How could he ask for my hand in marriage when he was undressing our waitress?! I feel like such a fool for getting dolled up on date night only for his attention to go to any woman that wasn’t me. I put my engagement ring away in the jewelry box. What a fucking joke. But yes, I’m happy he told me the truth.