Can women "Really" Sense a fapper?

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  1. Uhh maybe if your T-Shirt has semen stains on it? Otherwise probably not if that's your question
     
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  2. Vlysandor

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    some of these things are what i would answer. as i said in another post, when i'm around attractive girls, i only feel the despair and desire at the same time, but i can't view them not as an object. this may comes not only from porn addiction, but also from my autism. another reason to hate attractive woman is, atleast online, they can get intimacy whenever they want, while i sit there and get no replie. online dating is hell for most man, and i think 90% of the incels, also me, got to their point cause of this. there are theories that woman under 30 are in the position to decide who gets sex and who not. this comes from the spectrum of red/black pill. there where times i was full of hate, u know that kind, that u want to go to school with a gun. glad im not like this anymore. fuck this online shit, i want completely get away from this, i stopped online dating in generell. i'm already 4 weeks into pmo, i have a good buddy who helps me, we are planning now to go outside and meet real woman, to get away from the negative thinking and in touch with real people. i hope i'll get there good..
     
  3. Psalm27:1my light

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    So you only hate attractive women? You don’t have any female friends?
     
  4. Vlysandor

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    yes, only attractive. whenever i talk to attractive women, the hate flows away, as i notice, they are just humans, usually very kind, but when they are in relationships, it hurts to be so near to them but still can't get any closer, so i don't want to be around them. i have 2 female friends, both in relationships. they are not that hot and i know them for long, so that's ok for me.
     
  5. Psalm27:1my light

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    So you don’t hate women, just the ones you think u deserve to be able to screw and they aren’t interested?
     
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    Aaaah, so youre an autist-cel. Life gives no break, huh? Don't worry. If you want to get away from this, stop defining yourself as an "incel" and just realize that not having had sex is not something to be ashamed of, nor a "must have" that if you didn't do, means you are less of a man. I didn't as well, but I still consider myself a pretty ok person. Sure, I could be a bit more easy going and confident, but Rome wasn't built in a day. Hate is not a good emotion to have. And you can help it. It takes willpower, sure, but you can choose not to hate.
     
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  8. Vlysandor

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    yes, i guess it comes down to this. i'm 29, good looking, low requirements, already had relationships, women interested in my, but no sex till today. i just can't understand why.

    thanks for your warm words. yes, it's hard, but i'm happy i discovered now my addiction, cause this is my way out of the circle. i'm dealing for long with hate in my life, already took great steps against it, but there's more to go.
     
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  10. Icouldprobablyhelp

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    read the lady who said that some women ignore their intuition.. that's your answer
     
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    you sound like an extremely immature dummy
     
  13. AngrySard

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    I don't think @Psalm27:1my light wanted to come off as aggressive. It is natural that women take it less in sport than men when being regarded as pieces of meat to f*ck. They live their sexuality differently, and that's okay. Men usually have more libidinous intentions, and that's also okay. Let's not make it a man vs woman scenario: we're here to heal, and reflect on our life choices. As long as it does involve two consenting adults, regardless of the motivation or philosophy behind it, one can have whatever genuine needs.
     
  14. Icouldprobablyhelp

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    your an idiot.. dust or air are literally the things that make you bat your eyes
     
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    my advice is don't get discouraged and don't be afraid of rejection.. leave with a feeling that it's better to try and get a no than to not try and miss out on a yes yknow!?
    and it's levels to it also.. the number stage
    the texting talking stage
    the meet up after previous stage
    then the baseball stage (wink wink) lol
     
  16. Vlysandor

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    from what position are you answering, are you also an autist?
     
  17. Vlysandor

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    well, i'm far away from being a hardcore autist, to be specific i'm "only" an asperger autist. but anyway, such a general statement, as "men/women like/doesn't like" are never true, showing a b/w view of the world, and not helpful in this forum with people struggling..
     
  18. Psalm27:1my light

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    You be the best you can and you will find someone who loves you for you. My daughter is also on the spectrum and she’s awesome! Ive got two male friends on the spectrum and their wives adore them.
     
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