By this I mean like, when I was 18 I thought drinking alcohol and casual drug use was so cool. Within 3 years I was over it, and now at 31 I can't relate to that mindset whatsoever. I was even a smoker until 27, and when I see a cigarette nowadays I have absolutely no desire to have one (quit completely and cold turkey). My appetites for these things are totally extinguished, even though every few months I'll have a glass of wine but I can't even stand the state of drunkenness. I'm illustrating it this way because I can't seem to be able to reach this state sexually. I've quit porn for over a year only to slide back into it (I'm off porn now since April and probably won't relapse, but I never could have slid back into smoking after a year, for example). I sometimes will see a beautiful woman and my mind will get filled with thoughts of lust, and it seems like I can never satiate it. I was a libertine when I was younger, but it never left my system. It's like I always want a life of libertine sexuality even though I know it's harmful. Lust, unlike drug use or smoking or drinking, seems insatiable. I'm in a committed relationship right now and my sex life is actually the best it's been in a relationship, but I can't seem to get on the other side of lust. Has anyone experienced lust burning out?