Can you go on a nofap (ideally forever) even if you don't aim at having sex ?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Danny99, Aug 17, 2014.

  1. Danny99

    Danny99 Fapstronaut

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    For personal / family reasons I can't really have sex or go dating or anything ( I guess you can say its an orthodox family thing :( ).But I have stopped masturbation for like 2 weeks now and I don't intend on doing it anymore (saves a lot of time).But most of the nofappers have the main benefit/aim of having better sex and stuff.Is it ok/safe to stop jerking off if you don't intend to have sex?Thanks . :D
     
  2. Jofy

    Jofy Fapstronaut

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    Hey Danny,

    I can empathize with you. I'm in the same position. I want to end my dependency on masturbation & porn. But likewise I'm not in a relationship and I've never had sex nor intend to until I get married which I want to one day but if I don't I be in the same position. no sex no masturbation so yeah it kinda sucks. But on the physical side while I haven't been doing too well of late in the past I've managed for up to twp months with no dramatic side effects. except for the embarrassing boners art inappropriate times, leaking pre-cum, when the mind and body is stimulated but you dont allow it to go anywhere. from my experience you need to release the cum your body produces but it tends to take care of itself when you use the toilet or wet dreams. but the most intense battle is dealing with the mind but its a battle worth waging. not sure it this help or not but hopefully it does.
    Joe.
     
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  3. bullet

    bullet Fapstronaut

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    well said!
     
  4. Danny99

    Danny99 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks :)Its nice to know one is not alone ,because there was so much emphasis on "go out and have sex/meet women ",I started to wonder if nofap was for people who were in my situation .
     
  5. coolmike87

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    Danny, your in a better position than most actually. Many noFappers have the intentions of simply getting a girlfriend. Alot of people that you are talking about only want to stop masturbating so they can get sex in real life. There minds and motives miss the point that they are still sexually objectifying women and obsessing over sex.
    I can promise you nothing will happen to you if you don not ejaculate. Even until the end of time. You will have wet-dreams if your body needs to cycle your stuff. You will be better off than most and probably be more successful in quitting if you have the attitude of extinguishing sex from your life and mind all together.
    Goodluck to you. I hope to see you get an auto-counter in your signature and maybe start a journal... Feel free to message me if you have any questions about how to do that. They are good tools in staying fap-free.
     
  6. Audaz

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    Here same ,

    I am not muslim but i live in a muslim country.So having sex before marriage is uncommon even if you have a girlfriend , it is rare.

    I know not ejaculating to end of the time will not cause a problem but it is hard to keep abstaining.
     

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