CANT cum during sex but can through blowjob

Yeah, keep your penis in your underpants until you reboot (which no one will do in 7 weeks btw).

 

Be patient! Keep abstaining from P and M, and avoid fantasy. Don't try so hard to get off with your girlfriend. Let it just happen. Orgasm before your brain has fully healed will slow you down, but rewiring to physical human contact is good! While people recommend hard mode, there's no shame in normal mode; it can just take a bit longer to heal.

 

Were you using a condom?

If so, it may be the condom taking away the feeling. You obviously felt something when the condom was removed and you were in her mouth.

Do some research. Perhaps you need a thinner or sheep skin condom. Some condoms are “for him” that add to your pleasure.

Some guys are just adverse to condoms and a tactful conversation with your partner about alternative methods of birth control may be necessary.

 

how long does it take for the brain to fully heal?

 

Is it important for you to cum ?

Was it a blowjob or a blow-hand-job ?