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Cant feel a thing

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by NF SINCE BIRTH, Aug 22, 2021.

  1. Aug 22, 2021 #1
    NF SINCE BIRTH

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    I have been dating this girl for what seems like ages. I am not getting anywhere with her because I am just feeling numb. She likes me, I like her. But my thoughts about her are just looping. When I am with her, I dont have that drive to flirt with her. She probably thinks I am not that into her at this point. I feel flat most of the time. I can appear normal on the outside but on the inside I am just hollow. I flirt with her and she flirts back but there is no escalation. I cant get myself to kiss her. I am diagnosed with depersonalisation disorder. It is trauma related but I think my PMO addiction is just making it so much worse.
     
    NF SINCE BIRTH, Aug 22, 2021
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  2. Aug 22, 2021 #2
    hollyman

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    take it slow my friend there are no need to rush everything
     
    hollyman, Aug 22, 2021
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  3. Aug 22, 2021 #3
    DohnJoe

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    I think we need a little more details in order to give advice (if you want it). Like, how many dates have you been on, how long have you been talking to her, ever held hands/hugged, etc. Anyway, here's my surface-level advice. If you feel like you may be overstepping her boundaries by going in for a kiss, maybe you should just ask her next time? Might sound stupid as fuck, but thats what I did with my ex, and then we made out for a solid 2 hours. Never know until you try/ask, my man. And like hollyman said, no need to rush. I hope everything works out for you.
     
    DohnJoe, Aug 22, 2021
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