Can't get it up for new people

Hi,

Here's my story:

So about a year ago, I broke up with my high school gf after graduating and started to try and hook up with this girl i've always wanted that summer. I was confident, excited, and then I realized I couldn't get it up. At the time a jerked off multiple times a day and edged a lot, even started getting into cuckold shit. I'm a pretty goodlooking and average sized guy, but I freaked out for a while and we tried multiple times and couldn't get it.

In college I discovered NoFap and learned porn was the start of my problem. I couldn't get hard for one night stands, so a met a girl and only edged while being friends for a while, relasped sometimes, but weeks later we tried for the first time and i got it up, and ever since then I had no trouble with her. A couple months ago we broke up and I tried with multiple girls and couldn't get it up again. I did my best with NoFap but i could only last around a week at the most, but it helped me kick my habit of cuckold. I havent watched much porn at all, I only relapse to instagram because all I want to do if fuck girls, but my member won't let me.

I'm still able to fuck my exs, and now that Im home for break she wants to fuck. Will this help me build my confidence back, or should I not do it and keep trying NoFap? I want to get passed this perfomance anxiety shit, because I have that desire for girls so bad.
Does anyone have any advice for what I should do, it would be very much appreciated!