MassNameless
Fapstronaut
Hey guys,
Quick backstory: long history of porn use since I was in middle school, had sex in high school into freshman year of college (2016), nothing since then until this year. I relied heavily on femdom/findom stuff. At least once a day, often times multiple times a day for hours, you know the deal.
Got a gf this year, had ED and DE. Tried to quit porn. Dramatically reduced it, although I had a fair amount of one-time slip ups. I kicked my ED entirely though. I think going from multiple hours a day to once a week/once every other week took care of that.
Can't for the life of me shake my delayed ejaculation. Most of the time I can't orgasm at all. On the few occasions I have, it's been after at least half an hour (usually over an hour). It doesn't feel even half as good as the porn and kink content I'm putting behind me, which is discouraging.
I got a porn blocker/monitor app with an accountability partner recently, which is helping a lot. I'm 10 days no PMO (not a record), and have only infrequently watched/interacted with porn for about 6 months now.
Anyone else been through this? Does this get better? Any idea of even a rough timeline on this? I want to be able to enjoy sex, not some stupid online interaction with someone who doesn't care about me.
Quick backstory: long history of porn use since I was in middle school, had sex in high school into freshman year of college (2016), nothing since then until this year. I relied heavily on femdom/findom stuff. At least once a day, often times multiple times a day for hours, you know the deal.
Got a gf this year, had ED and DE. Tried to quit porn. Dramatically reduced it, although I had a fair amount of one-time slip ups. I kicked my ED entirely though. I think going from multiple hours a day to once a week/once every other week took care of that.
Can't for the life of me shake my delayed ejaculation. Most of the time I can't orgasm at all. On the few occasions I have, it's been after at least half an hour (usually over an hour). It doesn't feel even half as good as the porn and kink content I'm putting behind me, which is discouraging.
I got a porn blocker/monitor app with an accountability partner recently, which is helping a lot. I'm 10 days no PMO (not a record), and have only infrequently watched/interacted with porn for about 6 months now.
Anyone else been through this? Does this get better? Any idea of even a rough timeline on this? I want to be able to enjoy sex, not some stupid online interaction with someone who doesn't care about me.