Can't stand it anymore guys

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by chadrecovers1, Sep 19, 2019.

  1. chadrecovers1

    chadrecovers1 Fapstronaut

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    I keep relapsing over and over and over and over and over and over and over again to that sissy filth. It's not my girlfriend's fault. It's mine that we can't have well sex. Everything is screwed. I don't know when I started losing myself this bad. I've reached a bottom.
     
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  2. BreakingBenjamin

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    Remember that life is not about how many times you get knocked down, but how many times you manage to get back up.
     
  3. Maybe you could try therapy. There may be underlying issues that are driving you to the sissy stuff and P.
     
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  4. Consencus

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    Do not waste your money on therapy, trust me. I know its hard brotha I know but you have to keep trying. No matter how many times you fail you have to get back up on your feet and move on. Let your mistakes motivate you to success. I know you're at your lowest right now but believe me everything will be better. Start slow, find a hobby to distract yourself. Keep your mind off masturbating. Go out and play sports and start working out. Believe me once you're at home you're going to feel way too tired to even masturbate. It'll be hard I know but you have to train yourself, not everything in this world is easy if it was everyone would be successful. Challenge yourself and set goals. Remember YOU are in charge of your body. Don't let stupid things like this take over your life. Cheers brotha, you got this! :)
     
  5. Therapy has helped me and a lot of other people including many people on NF. People often need to seek professional help when it’s too much for them. It’s better than becoming so depressed that you end up suicidal.

    Some people suffer from depression due to chemical imbalances in their brains. Only a professional can diagnose and treat this. The OP sounds like he’s feeling desperate.
     
  6. Consencus

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    True, I'm not saying therapy is bad and should be avoided at all cost. Those who are in desperate need should for sure go and try therapy.
     
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  7. ItsSeal

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    If you really seek help, therapy can be really useful. But also think about if you have to struggle 24 hours, 7 days a week, or if it just this moment because you have this worse feeling you ´failed again´ and everything sees hopeless right now. Maybe you can try new strategies, for example there are a lot of strategies on this forum! Try a new sport, be more active, get a job, use no social media, keep journals, volunteer to work for free once a week and ect. I know it is hard at this moment, but we all have been there! If you really want this, do not give up. There will be always sunshine after a hard period.
     
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  8. Consencus

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    Yup, I completely agree. Most of the time the individual can fix this problem without the use of therapy. There are tons of solution which are cost free!
     
  9. chadrecovers1

    chadrecovers1 Fapstronaut

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    This you are saying means a lot. Sounds less attractive if I see it as the filthy trap it is. I will remember this when im about to fail.
     
  10. fedmom

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    I've made a thread on this and this isn't intended as spam, just to save typing the same thing.
    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...-humiliation-and-sissy-porn-addiction.249718/
     
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  11. Captain Caboodles

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    Fall down seven times get up 8. You’re in a great/supportive community. Use these tools and don’t beat yourself up. In the words of the great band Black Flag, RISE ABOVE, WE’RE GUUNNA RISE ABOVE!!
     
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  12. I’m so groovy

    I’m so groovy Fapstronaut

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    So is she into it??
     
  13. chadrecovers1

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    she knows that im doing this big challenge of leaving porn and masturbation, but i am not capable of telling her about the kind of shit im trying to get rid of. how could i?
     
  14. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    Don't say "I can't stand it". Say "Stand Proud".
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  15. Gvn2Fly

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    Keep trying until you finally succeed. You'll get there! I got into findom and buying lots of findom/femdom/humiliation clips and after trying and trying to not spend money I am now over 60 days payment free. I'm still trying to give up all porn completely...I've gone from daily hours-long day binges to being able to go about 5 days without it. I'm never going to give up trying to quit my addictions though.
     
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