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So, I'm that 21 y/o guy addicted to porn for many years... This thing has caused me frustration and defeats in many aspects of my life, or at least that's what I want to believe...
What was a slight shyness escalated to a social anxiety that makes it difficult for me to relate with others. Ofc I have never had contact with the female gender, no gf ever.
I don't know if I am still a virgin or not, since few months ago I went to escorts and had kind of disappointing experiences.
The thing is, nothing has really changed and I am still that looser that can't communicate well with girls, and it frustrates you to see everyone getting involved in relationships, getting laid, or at least having friends to share time with.
I have never really tried to flirt or that kind of stuff, my friends get curious about my relationships experience since I am very reserved and I always try to avoid the topic, and I always have to resort to lies and invent stories that have never happened...
Last night had another weird experience thanks to this, I talked with one girl of my class with which we had talked very little a while ago, Idk if she is interested in me because in the previous experience she asked me a lot of questions trying to know me more, but last night she was very direct and at first she began to ask me if I had ever had a girlfriend in my life. Ofc I lied, and I think she didn't believed at all. She continued asking about my ideal type of girl and stuff like that, it was really weird for me since we do not have so much confidence but she was very direct, and the question about whether I had had a girlfriend ... I really look that looser? It's not comfortable to know that people can "smell" the virginity in you, lol.
It's not that the girl does not interest me, I just do not make a move because I've never known how to play this game: the flirting game. I have another couple of stories from the past in which I had failures because I did not realize that a girl was flirting with me.
I do not know if what this girl did is an attempt at flirting, but I would not like it to be another failure because she is a girl who could be classified as my "type": kind of shy, funny, friendly, etc.
After so many uncomfortable situations, I must say that I would like to enter into such a complex game for me. I would appreciate if you guide me explaining what is the step by step in flirting with girls, not the typical thing of "be a gentleman, make her laugh" and things like that. But those implicit things that all people can come to know but that I find it difficult to identify.
What was a slight shyness escalated to a social anxiety that makes it difficult for me to relate with others. Ofc I have never had contact with the female gender, no gf ever.
I don't know if I am still a virgin or not, since few months ago I went to escorts and had kind of disappointing experiences.
The thing is, nothing has really changed and I am still that looser that can't communicate well with girls, and it frustrates you to see everyone getting involved in relationships, getting laid, or at least having friends to share time with.
I have never really tried to flirt or that kind of stuff, my friends get curious about my relationships experience since I am very reserved and I always try to avoid the topic, and I always have to resort to lies and invent stories that have never happened...
Last night had another weird experience thanks to this, I talked with one girl of my class with which we had talked very little a while ago, Idk if she is interested in me because in the previous experience she asked me a lot of questions trying to know me more, but last night she was very direct and at first she began to ask me if I had ever had a girlfriend in my life. Ofc I lied, and I think she didn't believed at all. She continued asking about my ideal type of girl and stuff like that, it was really weird for me since we do not have so much confidence but she was very direct, and the question about whether I had had a girlfriend ... I really look that looser? It's not comfortable to know that people can "smell" the virginity in you, lol.
It's not that the girl does not interest me, I just do not make a move because I've never known how to play this game: the flirting game. I have another couple of stories from the past in which I had failures because I did not realize that a girl was flirting with me.
I do not know if what this girl did is an attempt at flirting, but I would not like it to be another failure because she is a girl who could be classified as my "type": kind of shy, funny, friendly, etc.
After so many uncomfortable situations, I must say that I would like to enter into such a complex game for me. I would appreciate if you guide me explaining what is the step by step in flirting with girls, not the typical thing of "be a gentleman, make her laugh" and things like that. But those implicit things that all people can come to know but that I find it difficult to identify.