Cause of sissy fetish?

[Deleted Account]

That is not what he meant. Those three things are the interpretation of masculinity this kind of fetishes carve into your mind.

i'm not sure about that. Read again what he wrote.

 

[Deleted Account]

The entire argument over who has it worse is dehumanizing. Whoever wields that black and white thinking suffers greatly, and then they do terrible things with the very best of intentions.

Nope, not this time. Because facts are facts, and no one will be dehumanized due to facts. Really do research about the reality of the porn industry before judging my comparaison.
You are much likely to be the target of abuse at the hand of the porn industry if you are female rather than male, however the chances of being abused as a male are not low either. Remember the story about the teen boy.

 

[Sri Holdanut]

i'm not sure about that. Read again what he wrote.

He numbered those things just to point out that is the ideal of masculinity you feel less compared to. Those things don't come natural to a flesh and bone man, so stop judging yourself for not fitting into that superfluos bland idea of what a man should be. No one should pursue those traits I agree with you on that.

 

[sissyscarlett]

I honestly believe the main cause of this fetish is extremely low self-esteem.

I unfortunately developed a fetish for this a couple years ago, I already had submissive fetishes and very low self-esteem from being younger but indulging in trap/sissy/CD p. Amplified this by a LOT. It warps your sexuality and makes you fetishize your own self-hatred. That's why so much of it revolves around "pleasing your superiors" and humiliation and degredation.

I've saw quite a few people on this site suggest watching solo female P. As a way to overcome this "fetish" (I think mental illness is a better word). I think the solution is much simpler than that. First and foremost you need to start to value yourself and your masculinity. Go to the gym, get fit. Do NoFap and get your life in order, create goals. Once you do this, and you start to believe yourself and gain a bit more confidence, the fetish should fade away, because once you start to love yourself you have no more self-hatred to fetishize or sexualize.

I joined this site a few weeks ago because this fantasy was fucking with my brain, and through a combination of gym, spending more quality time with my partner and friends I can feel my old self coming back, slowly but surely.

I have to say that honestly I love myself both my masculine side and feminine side and have worn panties more often then not since I was a child really and I loved playing dress up and doing makeup and am more feminine then masculine in many ways from height 5'3" and weight 130, to even the shape of my body I'd even say I'm more on the emotional side I love everything about a woman. I also thought would say I am a cd sissy cuckold and love the humiliation because more times then not Im dominant in what I do from work sports wisdom. to be humbled and humiliated dressed as my woman's girlfriend. I pass as a woman as well. to be made to suck the cock of a guy she's about to get fucked by or pegged while she's fucked or both of us fucked staring into each other's eyes and making out, even just cause I look hot getting pounded the fetish is really how some are, as I am and always have been. I think a lot of men into it though are hypnotized by porn and stuff they watch and they don't realize it so they become depressed. That's my opinion and I can say I am 33 and been dressing up and fucking my self with toys and anything resemblance cock since I can remember. I have always also been way more attracted to woman then men and just in general like feminine figure style and nature better then the masculine style body nature. I can say I have been more happy then ever since I started embracing my own sissy side. Otherwise felt I was hiding a part of myself. I mean I wore my sisters my mother's female cousins and g.fs cloths my whole life and have like bed what anal feels like as well as how I look while taking it.

I honestly believe the main cause of this fetish is extremely low self-esteem.

I unfortunately developed a fetish for this a couple years ago, I already had submissive fetishes and very low self-esteem from being younger but indulging in trap/sissy/CD p. Amplified this by a LOT. It warps your sexuality and makes you fetishize your own self-hatred. That's why so much of it revolves around "pleasing your superiors" and humiliation and degredation.

I've saw quite a few people on this site suggest watching solo female P. As a way to overcome this "fetish" (I think mental illness is a better word). I think the solution is much simpler than that. First and foremost you need to start to value yourself and your masculinity. Go to the gym, get fit. Do NoFap and get your life in order, create goals. Once you do this, and you start to believe yourself and gain a bit more confidence, the fetish should fade away, because once you start to love yourself you have no more self-hatred to fetishize or sexualize.

I joined this site a few weeks ago because this fantasy was fucking with my brain, and through a combination of gym, spending more quality time with my partner and friends I can feel my old self coming back, slowly but surely.