Certainty is the key

I've been trying for years and years.

I never wanted to do this and every single time I did it I said to myself "this is the last time, im not gonna do this again"

I read the books, I watched the videos.

I visited this forum and nothing works.

it would seem like something worked for a little bit. but I could never get past 1 week.

on average I was getting off every 2-3 days.

Id build a little momentum and then tear it all down.

but I got somewhat of a revelation.

Im spiritual and I believe in god but this isnt a spiritual tactic or method. this is a law of nature.

earlier that day I was on a sales call and had gotten hesitant when asked questions about my product.

I realized that if Im hesitant then I cant sell.

I also realized everytime that I've been scammed I was completly convinced that I was making the right choice because whoever was scamming me made me believe that they had what I wanted. and I believed them becuase they were not hesitant at all but they were certain.

I realized that certainty sells. and its really difficult to sell without being certain in your product.

I had also listened to a podcast earlier that week about this cult leader. and he was so sure of everything he said and he was so fluent in his speach.

"you can have everything you've ever dreamed of. just follow me"

seems stupid in text but when you heard him say those words it sounded so convincing.

so in order to sell I need certainty... but what if I just have certainty with everything?

I've never questioned how many fingers I have. its always been 10... im certain of that.

I've never questioned weather or not I have 2 eyes. Im using them right now.

Im am certain of these facts.

as humans we question all of our beliefs. except the ones we trully believe. those we never think to question.

you never thought to question if you have eyes or not. because its just a fact to you. you are certain that you have eyes. if you didnt have eyes you couldnt read this.

if your certain the sun will come up tomorrow, will it actually come up?

if your certain that you have a mom and a dad, are they actually real?

yes.. the sun will come up

and yes.. your parents are real

you are certain of these facts. you dont have to question them.

in the bible theres a women with constant bleeding and she spent all that she had to get doctors to try to help heal her condition.

but when she had seen jesus she said to herself

"if I can just touch his robe, I will be healed"

notice how thats different from how we usually think?

I would say "I hope to god I never do this again"

or pray "please god I dont want to do this anymore"

but I didnt actually believe that I would never do it again or that god would take it away from me.

the women said "I will be healed" there isnt one ounce of unbelief in that statment.

she was certain that she could get what she wanted if she just touched his robe.

at the time there was a large crowd around jesus so she squeezed through to try to touch it and she barely touched it.

but when she did. she felt that she was healed.

and jesus turned around and said... "who touched me"

everyone was like... theres litterally hundreds of people crowded around you.

what do you mean "who touched you"

but jesus felt the healing power flow out of him.

when the women came forth and said that it was her, jesus said.

"Daughter, your faith has made you well. Go in peace. Your suffering is over."

jesus said that it was her FAITH

and if you dont know faith is belief.. its believing something WILL happen.

the women said to herself, I WILL be healed.

she was 100% certain

there wasnt a doubt in her mind.

and because of her certainty, she was healed.

one time I was playing basketball and I was missing litteraly every shot.

I had made 1 of 30 from the 3

I said to myself "man I cant hit anything out here"

then I stopped myslef and said

"what if I flip the script... I can hit any shot!"

then I turned around, shot the ball, and it drained in.

"whoa.. that was easy"

I grabbed the ball again. threw it up. 2 in a row

3 in a row

4 in a row

I got 7 in a row.

I didnt workout anymore. I didnt study the game. I just changed my mindset to have certainty... and my results showed what I believed.

from 1 and 30 to 9 out of 10 shots in.

just from telling myself "I can hit any shot"

so when I put all this together... that certainty sells. and certainty gets you what you want out of life. it made perfect sense.

if I am cerain that I will never jerk off or look at porn, will I do it?

no.. because Im certain.

its not up for debate.

there is no cheat day.

I am stating a fact... so there is no questioning it.

I will never jerk off or look at porn again... and Im certain of that fact.

now I barelly have any urges to do so. when I logged on to this site I was like "thank god I'll never need to look at this for help again."

now I get to help people... because Im ceratin this will help someone else if you just apply it.

and lets just say you try this and you do go back to your old ways...

were you ever actually certain?

if you were certain then it would never happen right.

so if you go back to your old ways then you truly didnt fully believe.

dont try to force it.

dont try to punish yourself, create a whole bunch of rules, try to have THE STRONGEST WILL POWER ON THE PLANET.

you dont need any of the tactics, books, or forums if you are just...

certain.

even when I do get urges I just say.."Im ceratin Im never going back to that.

before my urges had so much power over me. like I couldnt even help but fall into it.

now its like my urges seem so weak and minor. its not even a big deal for me.

and I havnt used this tactic in just my addiction but every part of my life.

I hadnt had a job or made any serious money in months and I was about to get behind on credit cards.

I started using certainty and I closed $7k in cash in a week and a half in my business.

I was also suppose to move out of my appartment last week because my lease was up.

I didnt have another place to stay but I was certain that I was going to have a place to lay my head come move out day.

I was able to extend my lease for 4 months without an increase in rent, which is awesome cause this company is money hungry and charge for everything.

so a deal like this is unheard of. and I get to experience an amazing life now because of my certainty.

I hope this helps you. I hope this is the last time you ever have to log onto this forum.

nobody wants to be here lol.

be certain you will never go back to that.

be certain you will never log onto this forum again.

just try it. it will change your life.

thanks for reading ur amazing.