This reply is too sad.
there is also a divine force in existence. We aren’t just simply advanced monkeys. There is a Bible quote that says something like “the race is not to the swift, neither is the battle to the strong, neither riches for the wise, but chance happens to them all”
someone in a really bad situation can come into a really good situation and someone in a really good situation can come into a really bad situation
lots of things can happen
Encouraging words are always welcome.
I don't believe in anything divine, I'm afraid. However, I do believe agree with your final statement; Good can certainly befall evil and vice versa. However, while I don't view humans are mere
advanced monkeys, I don't think they're divine either, or immune to the laws of nature. Nature is all about survival and procreation, and for every winner there's many losers. When we see a species succeed, we often fail to remember the many that didn't. We love as humans to tell ourselves that
there's someone for everyone, but that's not how nature works.
For thousands of years (possible longer), humans created institutions to try and level the playing field of mate selection, by effectively assigning certain men with certain women. Arranged marriage, dowry payments, strict norms on social etiquette, etc. Clearly, we weren't very mindful of genetics (we didn't know of their existence until the 19th century, I believe), which probably explains creepy cousin marriages. Nevertheless, it was all designed for the sake of order, transcational benefit, and even political stability. However, that simply isn't the case anymore, and was never the case in nature.
Once those institutions were gone, and the social/legal realities with them, the dating scene reverted back to what it is in nature: the fittest males are selected by the females, and every other guy can either scrape the barrell or die alone. The P industry is designed for the latter group, which is why most of us are here in the first place. In any case, there's one flaw in the system, and that's modernity itself. I suppose in Paleoithic times, the fittest males would actually have to
do the work so to speak, but now in the civilized world, they can look the part without having to
fend off interlopers trying to steal his pride, if you catch my meaning. I think this is why many women these days "chase Chad," and then complain/cry when he doesn't commit; he knows he can get the rewards (sex, affairs,etc.) without the investment. I knew a lot of deadbeat dads, and I think this explains them perfectly.
You're more than entitled to your religious views, but divinity or not, women will still chase Chads, because that's what they're wired to do. We may not like how nature works, but it doesn't stop it from being true.