As the items described in this post used to be a huge trigger for me I used the nsfw code to hide them. Proceed with caution During my years of PMO habit my interests in P changed significantly from pretty vanilla to more extreme ones, eventually leading to stuff about [nsfw]wife sharing and even cuckolding and SPH[/nsfw], both in my taste of videos and fantasies. I even talked to my wife about those as I tried to stay erect. She didn't really like the idea but wasn't really offended either. Sometimes she went along with it, more often she just ignored it. Just recently (perhaps partly as a result of quite frequent sex over the holidays) I've noticed that my interests have changed to [nsfw]not wanting to share my wife with another man but actually have another woman join us[/nsfw], something that I haven't been interested in for years. I'm not saying that this would necessarily be "more normal" but for me it feels like leaving one huge part of my PMO habit behind. It is still beyond plain vanilla stuff but I'm still allowed to have some fantasies, right? I feel great and I'm looking forward to having a PMO-free 2015!