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Chaos, Love, Strength, and Dragons!

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by TinkerTank, Jul 20, 2019.

  1. TinkerTank

    TinkerTank Fapstronaut

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    Lobito is chaos. It’s like a dragon.

    Most of keep the dragon asleep. The moment it asks for the smallest thing, we give it what it wants because we are too weak to resist. This keeps it fat and passified.

    Sex is intimately related to the creation of children. A weak parent would feed the child snacks whenever it throws a tantrum to passify it because they can’t handle the chaos.

    What happens if we don’t feed the dragon when it whines?

    It gets distrurbed and whines lowder.

    Can you handle it? What should you do?

    Well you use intelligence and earnest seeking to figure out what you should do. You learn a valuable lesson in the process. Your confidence gets a boost because you just conquered a challenge and are now able to handle a greater load of unpredictability. There is more vitality.

    Vitality is contrast between opposites. If the black side of a YinYang wiggles around quickly then what does the white side also do as a logical necessity?

    The dragon is hungry again and this time it’s not sleepy. How do you handle it? An even greater challenge.

    One of the key effects of NoFap is an increase in sensitivity and feeling. Trouble is that feeling is also a challenge. Remember that girl you were facing the other day that made you lose control and start fumbling all over the place? All she did was make you feel. She stimulated your libido. Same thing. It’s the serpent rising and you weren’t strong enough to contain and control the increase in voltage.

    How to solve this?

    It’s like a baby learning to use it’s hands. You aren’t used to the increase in voltage and so you lose control as a result. This will change with practice.

    You better master the challenge because otherwise the chaos of a new child... well let’s just say there are enough fatherless, directionless kids in the world with broken families and weak parents that settle for small things.

    Conquer the dragon and then it’s power is yours.

    How strong is the dragon in it’s ultimate state?

    You’ll just have to wait and see.

    Love.
     
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  2. elevate

    elevate Fapstronaut

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    I like it.

    Stay in that tension, problem, pain, dissatisfaction, discomfort, and uncertainty long enough. Work with it, step into it, harness it, seek it, and embrace it. That's how you create an extraordinary life and an extraordinary self. Not by escaping from it or release it with immediate gratification for the sake of certainty, ease, and comfort. Learn to bask in the unfamiliar extraordinary rather than staying in the familiar ordinary. That way you will be fully awake, finding your edge, and living your truth.

    Don't seek quick fixes to short term emotions at the cost of long term outcomes. Don't become idle, content, comfortable, numb, and sleepwalk through life.

    Amplify the voltage. Awaken the dragon. Face the chaos. Challenge the uncertain.
     
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  3. Sinbad

    Sinbad Fapstronaut

    Well said.
     
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  4. TinkerTank

    TinkerTank Fapstronaut

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    Thank you!
     

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