@LiquidShoes I know I relapsed on MO, but in my opinion is was a strategic move to remove the chaser effect and start again without it
Your opinion is lead by your addiction, its a strategic move made by your brain to make you masturbate.@LiquidShoes I know I relapsed on MO, but in my opinion is was a strategic move to remove the chaser effect and start again without it
in my opinion is was a strategic move
Lol! No...
Your opinion is lead by your addiction, its a strategic move made by your brain to make you masturbate.
I wouldn't count wet dreams towards abstaining unless maybe you're having them every night. I'm not able to wake myself up when that happens unless the dream is extremely vivid or I'm semi lucid and I realise.True abstaining is the ability to resist all urges caused by all triggers. Be it wet dreams, the chaser effect, the internet, unsatifying sex, anything. It was not strategic.
Don't listen to the above. Nobody "needs" masturbation in the slightest.
I wouldn't count wet dreams towards abstaining unless maybe you're having them every night. I'm not able to wake myself up when that happens unless the dream is extremely vivid or I'm semi lucid and I realise.
Oh okay, sorry mate I read that wrong. Urges after wet dreams or just after waking for that matter suck, I find them harder to deal with over the random ones through out the day.I meant urges you get after a wet dream. Say, for example, you were having a sexual dream, but you didn't orgasm or you orgasmed slightly. After you wake up and you're fully aware, you might recieve an urge afterwards to finish yourself off.
Just like how you could be going about your day and suddenly, you're struck with an urge. Getting a full-blown orgasm from a wet dream, I agree, isn't a relapse. But intentionally relapsing after getting one, I say is a relapse.
I meant urges you get after a wet dream. Say, for example, you were having a sexual dream, but you didn't orgasm or you orgasmed slightly. After you wake up and you're fully aware, you might recieve an urge afterwards to finish yourself off.
Just like how you could be going about your day and suddenly, you're struck with an urge. Getting a full-blown orgasm from a wet dream, I agree, isn't a relapse. But intentionally relapsing after getting one, I say is a relapse.
I remember last week Monday morning I woke up quite early and studied for some time and again went for a sleep. I had lucid dream of a female unnecessarily trying to make me cum in some sort of kingdom. And suddenly I was fighting some enemy as a soldier. I was happy I didn't had a wet dream but after I woke up I felt shitty. So, one has to accept the realty and move, as these things are temporary and you won't like to disturb your decent streak by intentionally relapsing.Oh okay, sorry mate I read that wrong. Urges after wet dreams or just after waking for that matter suck, I find them harder to deal with over the random ones through out the day.
But yeah, that would definitely count if you purposely did it afterwards.
I remember last week Monday morning I woke up quite early and studied for some time and again went for a sleep. I had lucid dream of a female unnecessarily trying to make me cum in some sort of kingdom. And suddenly I was fighting some enemy as a soldier. I was happy I didn't had a wet dream but after I woke up I felt shitty. So, one has to accept the realty and move, as these things are temporary and you won't like to disturb your decent streak by intentionally relapsing.