The chaser effect is real. I’m on day 14 of the standard challenge. I had an O with the wife for the first time during the challenge two days ago. I haven’t been able to get my mind off the experience since then. I’m more aware of what is going on, but the struggle is real. I just keep replaying the experience with my wife over in my mind. I guess day dreaming about sex with my wife isn’t bad in general, but it’s hard to stop my mind from going further. I also am having a hard time keeping my hands off my wife, which I know can get annoying to her because I always seem to push the envelope too far. Typing this has helped calm me down, but does anyone have any other good advice for dealing with the chaser effect? Not having sex with my wife is not an option. I should be able to have sex with my wife and then still function like a normal adult the days after.