chasing vs acting distant

modern milarepa

modern milarepa

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I say neither, because you become artificial you have to be you when dealing with people, I love authenticity in others and if I see someone playing games, a girl just acting cold on purpose I leave.

When I'm me, I'm spontaneous, confident, funny, seductive. I trust in myself and that my natural instinc is the right move.

But I'll say is important to give girls space specially when you are in a relationship or already had sex. Being all over the other, they feel trap. And also attraction grows in space not in proximity.
 
With woman, chasing after them always brings rejection in the end.
Acting distant is going to attract woman in the beginning but will make them give up in the end so is not usefull either.

The best approach is always focus your attention in your goals and ambitions and not woman.
Woman will put themselves in the orbit of the man they like in hopes he ask them out.
So it's really simple, be a great catch and wait for woman to get into your orbit. Ask out the one you are interest in and repeat over and over.
 
When texting I never chase. I always wait for them to contact me and never "check in" unless it's to ask the to meet at a specific time and place. When meeting in person I ask them about themselves and try to keep quiet about myself unless they ask then I drop whatever I want and get them back talking about themselves. I think it's more fun for them to play detective and work to find out details about me. Like "...yeah I learned that when I was hiking the Andes. What were you saying about your favorite eyeliner?"
 
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