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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by KrmGrn, Nov 26, 2014.

  1. KrmGrn

    KrmGrn Fapstronaut

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    What are your thoughts on the relationship between this addiction and cheating on significant others? I've cheated a few times, and each time the momentary excitement of a new partner wasn't worth the painful and lasting consequences... curious about other people's thoughts and experiences.
     
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  2. TeddyBear

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    I think cheating is one of the worst things you can do to another person that you're involved with. I cannot sympathize with you on the matter, but I do hope you can find it within yourself to curb this type of behavior. If you're in the habit of cheating, you shouldn't be in a relationship. It's not fair to the other person and you're only hurting yourself in the long run.

    The momentary excitement is not worth the damage it causes.

    There is probably a correlation between this and your addiction, but it's hard to say. I would stay away from cheating just like you're trying to stay away from porn.
     
  3. KrmGrn

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    I am staying away from cheating. I've cheated maybe 3 times total in different relationships over many years. The last time was a year ago however. I confessed immediately and we've worked through it and rebuilt trust. And I would never do that to her again. I know firsthand how painful and unfair it is. I've also been on other sides of this (have been cheated on as well as unknowingly cheated with).

    I'm not looking for sympathy or excuses here. I'm curious about other people's experiences and if they see a connection between our shared addiction and this kind of behavior.

    It's not something I'm currently struggling with. Just curious.
     
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  4. Karegador

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    PMO addiction is not a scapegoat for cheating. I've struggled with this addiction, same as you, but I have never cheated on my wife or even thought about cheating.

    Sorry dude, there is no connection.
     
  5. KrmGrn

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    Not looking for a scapegoat, as I clearly stated.
     
  6. heyitshannes

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    Good on you for coming clean about the cheating dude. As I see it, there is a connection between any kind of unwanted sexual behaviour. Be it Porn, strip clubs, masturbation, etc. I think these are mere symptoms of a much deeper rooted issue. It could be issue from your childhood to just plain old selfishness. The symptoms will always be an issue until you deal with the actual issue.
     
  7. I think it has somewhat related relationship. But as far as cheating goes you will be amazed at how much women will appreciate you if you are honest about it.
    Best of luck.
     

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