Checking in at 560 days

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by NoneForMeThanks, Aug 21, 2016.

  1. frogg05

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    Well said!
     
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  2. samnf1990

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    I'd be congratulating you if it wasn't for this vile behaviour.
     
  3. Powerous

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    Wow this is really motivating, I couldn't agree with you more. It is just so damn true, I just can't wait to kick PMO's ass once and for all. And I will look back at my ''lower'' wounded, socially awkward, low-self esteem past and be like ''wow that was really me at one point''. haha
     
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  4. well done to you brother...stay strong !!
     
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  5. nikh

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    Thanks for sharing this was great to read keep it up man you’re inspiring and you got this.
     
  6. HacKadi

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    How much time do you plan to keep avoiding O?
     
  7. theoptimist

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    Just reading your post, gave me a big push to be better. Thanks
     
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  8. Love_Travelling

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    Should read your post everyday, until I remember every word of it. It's so inpiring. Thanks so much for sharing.
     
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  9. SkyFallBack

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    Thank you man. Thank you for being a man!
     

  10. Its only vile if they accept. Vile on the woman's part.
     
  11. Physicist

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    if you are a secure man you'll want other men hitting on your woman. not because its a weird fetish you have but because in the game of courtship, a beautiful women gets approached.
     
  12. STAR DUST

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    WAY TO GO MAN! I AM COMMITTED TO NOFAP AND CONSERVATION! THANKS MAN! IT IS STORIES LIKE THIS THAT LEAD TO THE DEVELOPMENT OF MY UNWAVERING OPTIMISM! THANK YOU!
     
  13. samnf1990

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    Bullshit. Approaching a woman you know is in a relationship is to belittle what both people in that relationship have, and to potentially damage their relationship. Why give up porn if you are still going to be a bad person?
     
  14. Physicist

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    This screams of insecurity. Belittle and damaging only in your world.

    Approaching married women is the biggest compliment you can pay them.

    Responsibility goes both ways in a relationship.
     
  15. samnf1990

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    The depth of your ignorance knows no bounds.
     
  16. Physicist

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    The depth of your insecurity is limitless.

    Feel free to try and control your significant other.

    I sincerely wish you reconsider your position on approaching married women and even wanting to have your partner/wife approached because it sounds controlling and insecure.

    I have done it myself many times, with no other reason than to just make them feel good. They are older, they really really appreciate some guy telling them and letting them know they are attractive. Its an altruistic thing in a sense.

    When I have a wife/gf/partner, I say it again, I want them to be approached and get hit on by guys. I actively encouraged my gf to enjoy the moment of getting hit on by guys because she would often interject and leave. I encouraged her to be nice to them, let them have their moment and let her enjoy the moment of getting approached as an attractive woman. Even compliment them because it took a lot of courage for that guy to approach especially if he was awkward. Don't brush him off immediately.

    And you know what, it amplified her attraction for me. She couldn't believe it at times that I was ok with it. It made her jealous that I couldn't get jealous and I would even encourage it when we were out. She knew all about "The game" of it and was very intrigued by the whole process.

    But you continue with your life.
     
  17. Ali_naqvi09

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    Wow so inspirational :) :) :)

    I just recently joined this forum and I defs came to the right place.

    Seeing others succeed gives you that push.
     
  18. thel00ker

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    Sounds like you got drunk man, been there lol. congrats on those 400+ days!
     
  19. thel00ker

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    It feels amazing to be congratulated about something you were actually trying to change. Specially if they don't know about your effort.
    Thank you for writing this, it's a great reminder of why i'm doing this and a push forward into a better life..
    Great read! after 500+ days it feels like a great summary of what I also want to become.
    thanks!
     
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  20. Djlalo

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    Everyome complaining about hitting on married women, it is up to their husbands to make the wives love them so much that they would never dream of leaving them or cheating on them. If you find your wife cheating on you it is not the adulterers' fault, it's yours.

    You dont suddenly get to stop courting the woman you love because she accepts a ring, you have to constantly repeatedly earn her love. The only reason she would leave for someone else is because someone else was better at it than you.
    Don't hate the player hate the game, son.
     

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