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Christian Male, Celibate gay guy 27 years old - Need support

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by nic, Dec 25, 2014.

  1. Dec 25, 2014 #1
    nic

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    Hey guys

    I have actually posted before but my previous post was a little offensive. I am very sorry If I offended you. It was never my desire.

    So here is my story:

    I live in Korea and recently just came out to my parents and close family. I am a devoted Christian and I admit that I have Same sex attractions and I have acted out on these feelings. The more I did it the more I didn't feel comfortable with the life style. It's a decision I made by myself. No one pressed me. I decided to start a life of celibacy. It is really difficult because I have been addicted to Porn and Masterbation for most of my life.I recently recommitted to the Lord, He knows my heart and He knows how much I am trying to change my ways. It has been two weeks since I recommitted and I am going strong. I deleted all my gay hookup sites. I have lost a lot of friends and I am hoping to make a few new friends who understands or rather respects my decision.I am hoping to find respectful individuals around my age who would be willing to pray for me and perhaps chat with me... via skype, whatsapp or just plain email. I really hope that I find a support group.

    Be blessed
     
    nic, Dec 25, 2014
    nic, Dec 25, 2014
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  2. Dec 26, 2014 #2
    Dogwood

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    Good luck. That sounds quit challenging. Unhooking from porn is a good idea for everyone. Some guys even find that sexual tastes shift somewhat (not sure that works for deeper orientation). But you might find these interesting: http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/are-sexual-tastes-immutable AND http://yourbrainonporn.com/are-fetishes-innate and

    In any case, your level of horniness (and dissatisfaction) is generally increased with porn and sexual fantasy: http://yourbrainonporn.com/sexual-fantasy-the-more-you-scratch-the-more-you-itch

    What are you doing to make new friends? http://yourbrainonporn.com/tools-to-connect-with-others
     
    Dogwood, Dec 26, 2014
    Dogwood, Dec 26, 2014
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