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(Christian) Will I perform well on my honeymoon? Serious answers

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by instant Shining Wizard, Jul 9, 2020.

  1. Hey I'm trying to quit my porn addiction since being a teenager. I am 27 now. I could be married to my wonderful SO within the next 2 years or so. And being Christian, we're doing the no sex before marriage. I'm not a virgin, but she is.

    Am I going to explode at first touch, and ruin her first time?
    Am I gonna be able to perform well after being clean?
     
  2. No one knows how you’re going to perform for your future honeymoon. You just have to work on your own health (physical, mental, and spiritual), accept the unknown, and go with it. Start adding the intention for a good honeymoon in your daily prayers.
     
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  3. Two years should be enough time - if you make the most of them. That means, avoid all unnecessary lust, basically, as well as you possibly can. If you slip up in any way, get straight back to recovery. Read that last sentence again because it's just as important as getting long streaks.

    Don't worry about premature ejaculation, that's way better than PIED anyway.

    So avoid P, P-subs, ogling, fantasising etc. as well as you can, and try not to worry unnecessarily.
     
  4. Hey man you have to understand that its not meant to be perfect the first time, that is a lie that the world has taught you, that you need to perform like a pro, in reality its going to be sloppy and a big mess, but as time goes on you both get better and it will become good eventually.
     
  5. ShadyPerson

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    I have heard that the first time is always kinda bad. You can't just be a sex god with never having even touched anyone else than yourself. Also if you come too early, you can always keep her satisfied in other ways while waiting for you to be ready for another round. The whole thing about coming too early being some huge problem that couldn't be worked around is an urban legend as long as you make sure she gets to have fun time too.
     

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