Close to a year, still same problems

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by phwrancesco, Mar 12, 2018.

  1. phwrancesco

    phwrancesco Fapstronaut

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    i'm going straight to the point:

    since i started nofap i've no longer ED thank god.

    This mean that everytime i'm engaged in something sexual i'll 100% gain a good and solid erection.

    I no longer loose erection when is time to penetrate my girl.

    I stil suffer of PE.
    To be clearer: let's say that 1 time out of 10 i0m able to last as long as i desire. Other 9 times i come in a few seconds after penetration. I can last a little longer with foreplay.
    I still feel a little uncomfortable with penetration.

    I'm really thinking about how fix this but have no idea how. I'm starting to feel frustrated.

    Advices?
    Thanks
     
  2. Hufflekid

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    What was your history like before you started?
     
  3. phwrancesco

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    heavy ED and, when not ed, PE
     
  4. Big Lebowski

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    I think time is the only answer man. I still can’t pop 100% erections yet and only get slight erections at best been like that for years. This journey is absolute hell when you are young.
     
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  5. Iahim

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    what does mean PE?
     
  6. jorg78

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    Premature ejaculation

    PE can be pelvic floor issue. If you are worried, try some reverse kegels

    Other tips: Numbing cream or taking Ashwagandha/ginseng supplement
     
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  8. Hufflekid

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    It sounds like your body is still recovering. Your streak says "meeting my goals", but what does that mean exactly?
     
  9. phwrancesco

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    i do kegels, tried reverse once but didn't understand how they has to be done
     
  10. phwrancesco

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    for me no PM
     
  11. jorg78

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    If you only do kegels without reverse kegels, you will suffer PE.
     
  12. Hufflekid

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    Hm, okay, have you ever been in hard mode? Abstaining from orgasm a while might help things move along a little quicker.
     
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  13. Herc

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    Yes, I am interested as well,if you been only without PM for almost a year. What about sex? What was the maximum number of days you've been without sex during this period?

    PE is my biggest problem and I want to cure it as well. When I was masturbating and having sex, but abstaining from porn, it didn't worked for me, it became even worse after 1 month, I was ejaculating just right on the entrance to girl. Now I am about 120 days entirely without PMO and I just hope that it will work...
     
  14. [WARNING: POSSIBLE TRIGGER]

    Herc, I recall a situation about ten years ago when I was involved with a woman in an FWB scenario. I was largely abstaining from PMO, partly at her suggestion, because she found it 'hot'. I recall once when she was at my place and we were going at it hammer and tongs. She really liked a load on her breasts, and I recall pulling out and barely making it to her navel.

    Of course, the abstinence meant that 10 minutes later I was ready to go again, so there is that. Don't worry to much about PE. If it continues to be an issue for you, consider seeking medical advice.

    I've long had the other problem; of not E at all. I've been through relationships where I never E'd. (check my signature for a further rundown)
     
  15. phwrancesco

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    i've been on some involuntary hard mode streaks like, 30 days, 50 days, 25 days.
     

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