Colleague at work, GTFO my mind!

Surely the last part?? Sounds like you already know the answer lol

and if you’re married surely not a good plan to be asking someone out…does she know you’re married?

 

Why don't you ask your wife what she thinks?

 

Work relationships are not a good place to be, more so if you are already committed. When you feel something for her, try thinking into something intimate, ... like she taking a dump on the floor.

If you have barely talked to her, you don't like her. You like the fantasy of her.

 

You having such feelings means your marriage should be thoroughly examined.
It is lacking excitement and you are trying to get it from somewhere else.
My advice is to ask God to help you improve your marriage.
And to become a better man with a stronger will

 

Plz read Cupids poisoned arrow by Marnia Robinson.
It will explain everything.

 

You have to conciously stop yourself. Stop expecting for some magic to happen. Women are attracted to married guys I'm not gonna lie to you. You have the power. It's your choice whether or not to abuse it.

 

of course you should ignore her. Asking her out is a terrible idea, unless you want your marriage to end. And talking to her more could put you off her, but is just as likely to make you like her all the more.

I suggest you take some time off work, have a second honeymoon with your wife. If you don't have any money, just stay in bed

 

No. Just no.

Someone who consistently obsess about others isn't in love, come on. You are comfortable and enjoy your wife, thats another thing. My husband slept with his coworker and I was like "but he still loves me!" A male friend asked me, "do you really think he loves you when he did that?" I got angry, defensive. But of course he was right. Someone who loves you doesn't wanna do those things to you. Of course you can find other people attractive when you are married, but sexually obsessing about others is another animal entirely. Maybe you should discuss these things with your wife so she have the chance to do what she wanna do as well. I sure wish my husband had done that to me instead of robbing me of everything.

 

Now try to focus on your wife and what she brings to your life, that is real not fantasy.

These situations are tricky, been there myself.

 

glad you found a solution