Committed AP Group With Leaderboard

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by Halibut, Apr 15, 2019.

  1. Legit1

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    Day 2. So I did kept my relapse as just 1 relapse. It'll be very stupid of me if I went on a binging streak just because I ruined a 23 day streak.

    Today I had sexual dreams with girls I don't know, it was pretty unusual because... well, it was basically an orgy. Once I woke up I was weirded out, because I would never be a part of something like that, it's just not my thing. Anyways, I will come back just as strong as my last streak. Once I ended that last streak I felt like an idiot to be honest, because it just wasn't worth it, it just felt like your normal session without any spark as usual. Best of luck, guys! Add another day to your streaks.
     
  2. pourover24

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    Made it through - and been doing very well the past few days. Need to keep it up though. Its helped to have some time off and to be around family. @Halibut Hope you're doing well!
     
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  3. christian17

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    I have read the rules and would like to become an ap
     
  4. Halibut

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    Hey all, I relapsed a couple of days ago

    Back on track now - I have written out some key dates in 2020 and what day abstaining from PM I will be on.

    E.g On my 25th birthday I will be on day 275!

    Hope you all had a grand Christmas and have a great new year!
     
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  5. Caseyjay26

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    I’m looking for an accountability partner! Anyone who can help/ needs some support!
     
  6. pourover24

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    @Halibut great to hear from you brother. I, unfortunately, am here to report a relapse, but I'm getting immediately back on track. I am 36-5 over the last 41 days - and am hoping I'll be able to go the remainder of January without any issues.

    I have been stressed out this week with trying to get work going again, but the kids also not being back at school and just feeling fully out of rhythm. I can't wake up and get out of bed in the morning. I know that waking up is actually supposed to get easier the longer you are able to go without a relapse. I just need to make the right choices and make sure my internet is closed at the proper times when I am stressed out - otherwise, I quickly turn to porn.
     
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  7. MillennialFalcon92

    MillennialFalcon92 New Fapstronaut

    Hello fapstronauts! I am new to this forum, but I have looked through this thread and I am very inspired by what I see. I have read the rules and would like to join the waiting list if at all possible. Thank you and best of luck to all!
     
  8. kym

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    I have read the rules and I would like to join the AP .
    Am 27 years old from Kenya,I have been on and off in this nofap journey and its now 5yrs lying to myself that I will get better.i have come to realize that I can't do it on my own..I need help from the rest of the nofap group to get better
     
  9. Legit1

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    So I've been going deeper and deeper into this addiction where I'm gaining more strength to the point I'm becoming more sharp when urges or withdrawals arrive. Long story short, this addiction has messed me up on my calcium levels which is why I have TMJ, weak knees, and a root canal in the past. I'm grabbing the bull by the horns this time for sure, and hopefully I can kick this addiction by this year. Best of luck, guys! Let's get serious and recover RIGHT NOW!
     
  10. chimax7

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    I have read the rules and would like to join the AP. If I could get on the waiting list, that would be awesome. This thread has been inspiring to read and I wish everyone in this thread the best of luck in their NoFap journey.
     
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  11. pourover24

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    Welcome! @kym @L1ster @chimax7 @MillennialFalcon92 ! Glad you guys are interested in joining up! @Halibut is your guy in terms of getting you guys set up and on the leaderboard. I myself haven’t been as active as I’ve wanted to lately, but ideally, I want to be posting on here every other day. I’m excited to be alongside you guys in this journey.
     
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  12. pourover24

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    I’m really concerned about tomorrow. I’ll be home alone and lately, I’ve had some bad days when home alone. If I stay focused and keep the internet shut off when I don’t need it, I should be fine. But lately, I’ve been quite lazy. I can’t afford to be lazy. Also, I’ve built in some rewards for myself for getting to certain milestones. I just reviewed my progress and seeing the potential for a reward encouraged me to push on.
     
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  13. Legit1

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    I relapsed 3 days ago and damn... I'm really getting fed up with my relapses. The pleasure I get is so dull that it ends up frustrating me pretty badly, because I think it will be a good relapse but instead it's so dull and boring. I really need to learn that that pleasure will never bring happiness
     
  14. Jagliana

    Jagliana Fapstronaut

    For any PA's interested in having someone to talk to, check in with and a safe place to talk about all things recovery... my husband @Wade W. Wilson, 36 yrs old - who has been in real recovery for almost two years now (will be two years on Jan 29th), has created a dedicated Discord channel for PA's, all are welcome to join and he is looking forward to getting to know each of you.

    You can join the channel by clicking this link: https://discord.gg/gXPuU9q >> This is for you if you are looking for honest help and accountability in real-time. To think, these days I, the betrayed can vouch for him because he has been putting in the work and became a completely different person during the course of this recovery, I've witnessed it firsthand.
     
  15. Halibut

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    Hey all - I am, looking to reboot the group again and add some new people

    Pretty much going to restart the leader board - starting afresh for 2020

    If you are interested in joining please send me a private dm so I can more easily add you

    @Legit1 and @pourover24 I will keep you guys on board as you have maintained active throughout! (cheers guys)

    I am also reducing the max group size down to 10 to try a closer knit of AP's

    I will update the leaderboard at least once a week

    Thanks
     
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  16. GKDOES

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    i am 21 med school college droput lets connec we might BE great AP
     
  17. Accountability Bud

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    Hey, I have read the rules and would like to become an AP.

    A bit about me:
    I live in Texas with my parents, recently graduated college, never had a meaningful romantic relationship, am a musician and scientist (kind-of).

    Life is alright but I know it could be so much better if I didn't waste several hours each day masturbating to porn. Since I was 14, I haven't gone more than a few weeks (usually days) without porn and masturbation.
     
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  18. GKDOES

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    lets connect and kill dragon together
     
  19. pourover24

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    @Halibut great to hear from you man. I have been so lazy on this board - I know I could be WAY more active. To really get the most out of this - I feel I should check in every day. However, it's tough to do every day - so every other would be more doable perhaps.

    I'm on a good streak and have seen my resolve begin to grow as I've crossed days off my list. If I can get active again, that would be important.

    @Halibut how have you been doing?
     
  20. Halibut

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    Hey @pourover24 , I have been doing ok man - have had some good streaks where I have noticed a huge improvement to my life:

    - more confidence, more energy, no shame or anxiety, dreams are back when i sleep, I have more self love and love for others and so much more

    Yet things keep coming back to a relapse between 7-15 days kinda mark

    So today I have made sure that it is impossible to access porn

    My phone only can access websites that I have noted down - amazon, ebay ect - my brother has set the password code (he doesnt know why it has been set) and it is at my parents the code written down

    My pc (which I am writing this on and can only get on this website on this pc) is blocked for all sexual key words and adult sites are blocked and the passwords are around my parents who live fairly close by so I am not tempted to unblock any of it.

    So hopefully - fingers crossed - this should help me during those white knuckle moments where I find myself in a moment of weakness it will be like - there is nowhere to look at anything anyway!

    Hope you are doing good man!
     

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