Committed AP Group With Leaderboard

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by Halibut, Apr 15, 2019.

  1. Hercules9

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    Thanks for your help, man
     
  2. Hercules9

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    I had a long conversation about sex with a (non-sexual) female friend yesteday. I tried to convince the two of us that it was about being open and honest and reducing my anxiety, but part of me was really enjoying (in a sexual way) the conversation, and I think this brought on the dream. I think from now on I should avoid the topic of sex altogether, when talking to women.
     
  3. Halibut

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    Happy New Year fellas - let’s make 2021 Porn- free!!

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  4. Trailblazer7

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    Happy New Year to you too buddy ! Let's go through January PMO Free
     
  5. Halibut

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    AP RANKINGS as of 01/01/21
    Achievements:
    1st: :emoji_trophy: 2nd: :emoji_medal: 3rd::emoji_military_medal:
    90+Days::emoji_rocket: 60+Days::emoji_airplane_departure: 45+Days::emoji_helicopter: 30+Days::emoji_bullettrain_front: 21+Days::emoji_police_car: 14+::emoji_red_car: 7+Days::emoji_motor_scooter: 3+Days::emoji_bike: 1+Days::emoji_walking:

    1| @lolman123 (60)
    :emoji_trophy::emoji_airplane_departure:
    2| @ForceMaster (37):emoji_medal: :emoji_bullettrain_front:
    3| @MichaelJordan(14) :emoji_military_medal::emoji_red_car:
    4| @Halibut (13):emoji_motor_scooter:
    5| @pourover24
    (13):emoji_motor_scooter:
    6| @Hercules9 (10):emoji_motor_scooter:
    7| @active participant in life (?)


    *NO -JERKING JANUARY CHALLENGE*

    Last man standing - relapse and YOU ARE OUT! LETS GET THROUGH THIS MONTH!

    1| @lolman123 (60)
    :emoji_trophy::emoji_airplane_departure:
    2| @ForceMaster (37):emoji_medal: :emoji_bullettrain_front:
    3| @MichaelJordan(14) :emoji_military_medal::emoji_red_car:
    4| @Halibut (13):emoji_motor_scooter:
    5| @pourover24
    (13):emoji_motor_scooter:
    6| @Hercules9 (10):emoji_motor_scooter:
    7| @active participant in life (?)
     
  6. lolman123

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    Hey, Happy new year everyone, good to see this AP group being active. Definitely helps to keep me going with my streak.

    Update for 1st Jan 2021:
    No MO= Since 2nd November 2020 (Day counter)
    No P or PMO= Since 26th December 2020 (6 Days)

    Still going strong with No MO with 60 days (But 6 days No P or MO), probably my longest streak of No P in a long time since I'm starting to resist the urge to look at P or P-substitutes. Really need to stop myself from thinking looking at any P as a complete relapse as I've definitely improved and no longer instinctively try to MO when I see P or p Substitutes. Most of my progress I likely due to having a website blocker I can't stop (SelfControl and others).
    The main goal is No PMO reboot 90 days, but No MO is definitely a step in the right direction.
     
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  7. Trailblazer7

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    Is there any discord/What'sApp or some group where we can interact easier?
    Nice Job @lolman123 !! No MO is definitely a step in the right direction.
     
  8. Hercules9

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    You look at P without M'ing? I didn't realise that was a thing. Weirdly, I have the opposite problem of feeling no particular compulsion to look at P, but wanting to give up M.
     
  9. lolman123

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    Yeah, normally if I look at any P I would immediately just MO but since I've been trying to actually reach 90 days and not relapse because I previously wanted to go full hardcore mode decided I would track both P and PMO and stop myself deciding to reset/binge every time I search up P.

    it can be difficult not to just completely relapse if I decide to look at P or P-substitutes (Like on youtube or IG), but I'm weirdly able to stop myself from MO'ing and eventually just close P out of frustration. Most of the year, I would have just PMO or relapsed at P but at least starting to have more resistance to urges. (Though website blockers and limiting P access is the main strategy)

    Seems to be working since this is longest I've not MO'ed in the last 2 years since starting Nofap. Still want to eventually just quit PMO completely. trying not to focus on the streak and just stay as busy as possible.
     
  10. Hercules9

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    I see. It irritates me, too, that the "P" part of the day-counter is included by default, for the reasons I give in my signature. It should be possible to state precisely what one's aims are.
     
  11. Halibut

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    Hi all, checking in at day 15 - I’m proud of getting a good streak going again

    Nearly fell face first down the rabbit hole yesterday, but I stopped my pattern of thought by doing a deep breathing exercise until I stopped feeling ‘triggered’

    Hope everyone is doing great

    Let’s get to the end off January meeting ours goals
     
  12. Halibut

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    DAY 16 Been hit with lack of interest in most things again today but really picked up in the evening And had lots of good energy
     
  13. Trailblazer7

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    Today is Day 19 ! It's been a fckin year since I've come so far !!!!!!!!!!!!!! Day 18 was like my limit
    So happy to reach this stage. I just want to feel alive again and appreciate the small things in Life

    On the other hand ,There is girl that I want to see but I've been kinda dodgy because I have PIED and I want to get in shape. I want to be at my prime again. It's not for her but for me. l like to look at myself and goddamn I look good today. Plus I don't want to be embarrassed with some bad performance due to PIED

    Today is Day 1 of
    Eating Only 3 Meals a Day - No Carb - No Sugar - No Eating Outside these Windows
    Do 1 Pushup + 1 Pullup + 1 Throwback
     
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  14. lolman123

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    Hey, checking in for day 11 of No PMO and Day 65 of No MO. This is definitely the best streak I've done so far in a long time, trying to keep going not get too confident.

    The new strategy for urges is going pretty good, saw it mentioned online for bad habits/addictions that if you have a rubber band on your wrist and snap it when you have an urge associated with an addiction to remind your brain it is a negative action. Didn't think it would actually work but after 8 days it definitely rewired me to think to snap the wristband as soon as I get an urge. Definitely wouldn't work if I didn't have a website blocker I couldn't edit or remove but seems to be working at the moment.

    The aim is to keep up the No PMO to 90 days and go from there.
     
  15. lolman123

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    That's great man, keep it up already setting your personal best in nofap!

    Sure you'll see PIED go away with time (Never really experienced it though). Definitely check out other forums on here on PIED but did hear something about maca root & l-arginine online somewhere for improving libido (But I have no clue about it so don't take my advice as gospel but may be some supplements that help with PIED).
     
  16. Trailblazer7

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    Really happy things are going your way man ! How are you feeling these days?
    Thanks I'll check these out. I think after years of PMO'ing, there is a lot of damage to be undone

     
  17. ryukPLYZ

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    I would like to join if their is still room available
     
  18. Halibut

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    Hey All, got past them dodgy 3 weeks and feeling a lot more stable - the only way is up from here!

    Glad to see people are getting on well
     
  19. ryukPLYZ

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    @Halibut is their any room available in the group ??
     
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  20. Trailblazer7

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    Halibut man I'm really glad everyone is doing well. Today is one of the best days !!!
     
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