Completely changed.

This really resonates with me. Thanks for the inspiration.

 

I'm on day 17 and I feel the same. I restarted talking to girls on dating site and if they don't like the real me, they can always find another man. I'm much less needy now. I changed my whole perception on many things and went from seeing rejection as something terrifying, to, something very positive. In rejection I learn and I earn confidence/experience with girls. To me, it's only a matter of time before I find the right girl ...or the right girl find me.

Gotta go, I wanted to talk to that georgeous fit girl that call herself ''asexual'', yet is looking for men between ages 26-31. I like challenges and this should be fun, let's do this!!

 

Not that I'm an expert, I'm still trying to reach goals along with the rest of the people here. But talking to girls on dating sites is not really going to help. It in many ways from what I fathom is a gateway back to bad habits. Go out and talk to women in the real world when you can. I have the same habit too and it's tough, but talking to girls online won't do us good.

 

Even if I plan to meet them in real life? I know where you're going when you say it's a gateway to bad habits but I can't always talk to real-life girls. When I can, I talk to real-life girls but when I can't because I'm at home and I have nothing to do, I talk to girls online to gain confidence and experience. Not as much as if the girls were really in front of me but that's better than nothing.

 

But you're still exciting yourself through online conversation. Probably coming across shots of women in sexy outfits that stimulate you. It all ties in. Look, I'm not by any means the spokesman for this because I'm still figuring it all out, but there's a problem there.

 

Yeah, it does not! Man, i completely feel you, i am at the same page. Go for it man, success! And congratulations!

 

No I'm not. I avoid all shots of women in sexy outfits and I don't see any problem in trying to get real-life girls. Like I said earlier, no matter what way I use, I try to talk to as many girls as possible in any way as possible, to get more confident and gain more experience with them. I know what you think PaFappa but I'm not using those sites for what you think, trust me, I'm done with PMO.

The only thing that pisses me off is that most girls ignore me. It often seems like a big waste of time to go on those dating sites and some girls make me laugh. They have all kind of extravagant expectations, as if I was there to entertain them, spoil them but I'm not a clown. And I'm not their father. These girls really ARE a big waste of time.

 

Man you said it!

I call it so far: "Dont give a shit aura" - thats what i gained during the process so far - it feels so good. I am on my own,. the best feeling!

Keep going man, it looks you are gonna break it through soon!!!

 

wow Good brother.

 

Amen to this man. I have the exact same feeling since i'm into noPMO. I'm able to stare and hold eye contact until she's the one who looks away! Back then it was vica versa. Buuut of course there will always be (a few) women who stay strong and stare right into your soul -which I still do look away from.