Completely new- looking for resources for quitting/escaping fetish

[Sote]

Hi all,

I'm so glad to have joined this forum and hope I can find some people who have experienced circumstances like mine, or who can direct me to threads that could help me. I am a straight male in my early 20's, and have had a benign but embarrassing (to me) fetish since my early teenage years. I have been consuming internet porn involving it since the day I encountered it, which was before I started being attracted to girls sexually. Since then, I have only ever watched porn involving this fetish, which does not involve penetration, on a near-daily basis. I have never had much interest in regular sex, and don't even get particularly aroused by seeing naked women.

I know I am straight- I am attracted to pretty women, feel myself getting nervous around them, etc, though I don't usually think about having sex with them. I would like nothing more than to rid myself of my fetish and my intertwined porn addiction, so I can have a fresh start, reignite my regular sexuality and start feeling confident enough to pursue relationships with women. I am really interested in hearing from anyone who has encountered this problem, and if they know of any threads or subforums they can direct me to that deal with this.

 

[Moodzdoctor]

My fetish is feet. I kinda suspect the same with you. It's EVERYWHERE and it's so hard to quit when you have a foot fetish. I'm trying to get over it by simply not staring/looking at women's feet. Everytime I see a pretty woman I instantly look at their feet. I now make a conscious effort to not look and just go about my business. If I see a pretty woman, instantly I look away. Not knowing what their feet looks like is frustrating to me but by doing this I don't start a train of sexual thoughts/fantasies in my head and it has kept me on the straight and narrow for quite some time now. Remember, you have a choice of what images you let into your head.