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Condom issue? Pied?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by ss1111, Nov 6, 2020.

  1. ss1111

    ss1111 Fapstronaut

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    For some reason I’m able to keep my boner at all times. Only when it is time to wear the condom(side note: I’m not good at wearing one on), I end up losing my erection. Even when we were making out and I saw her naked I got hard. But once I started putting the condom it took a while and my erection just wasn’t enough for penetration.
    Later, I gave her oral sex and was super hard and even she gave me a blowjob and I actually came to it and I was hard the entire time. Even if I get super turned on, normally it doesn’t go away immediately.

    I’m realising either it’s just the condom that doesn’t suit me and is a massive turn off or probably I wasn’t really in the mood back then(which I wasn’t but I still got a lil turned on). Anyone else think that condom can actually be an issue and ruin erections?
     
  2. jromerok

    jromerok New Fapstronaut

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    I'm having the same issue. Looking forward to any responses
     
  3. What about masturbating alone then trying a condom, see how that works for you. Mean while pray that nofap user edsucks gets his boners and libido back
     
  4. ss1111

    ss1111 Fapstronaut

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    I really think it’s the condom. Not everyone is suited to a condom. For me it definitely was pied but today after going down on my girl I was rock hard and I think had I penetrated without the condom it would have worked. Probably the break and tightness of the condom turns us off? What’s your opinion
     
  5. ss1111

    ss1111 Fapstronaut

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    That is my plan, not masturbating, but once when I’m sexting w my girl, I will try and put the condom on and see what the effect is. Because my libido is there up until I put the condom on.
    You will get it back, you are just flatlining. Be patient
     
  6. Do you mean that your libido awakens only with an erection and when your erection is lost you lose the desire?

    Also don't you think that sexting is porn?(especially the cam version)
     
  7. ss1111

    ss1111 Fapstronaut

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    Man I’d say it’s proportional w me. I can get an erection real quick and it stays around as well if there is enough stimulation. But it goes away when I’m getting a lil turned off.

    Also, as long as I’m sexting or having phone sex with my girlfriend, I believe it’s fine. If I was sexting w random girls then it would be like porn imo.
     
  8. May i ask, if you don't touch your self and have phone sex with your girl, with sms or voice,( no video) can you achieve a 100% erection?

    For me, this sometimes triggers a weak erection ,but it goes down in less than 10 seconds and continue the rest of the session limp.

    Did you go through this?
     
  9. ss1111

    ss1111 Fapstronaut

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    Yes I do get a 100% erection without touching during phone sex or sexting.

    Even I had similar issues before. I’d find it very difficult to get an erection without stimulation and keep it. It would eventually go limp. Now that after I have done almost 90 days of nofap I can maintain it up until a wear a condom.

    I think I have lowkey been cheating though. There have been instances when I was so horny I just looked at hot girls on insta. That is probably one mistake I have made all this while. I need to control myself from here on.
     
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  10. Thanks for answers, i am badly damaged i forgotten what's normal be like. Your case is mild. Be thankful you caught it up early and stay away from Instagram girls.
     
  11. ss1111

    ss1111 Fapstronaut

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    Yeah mate we’re all in this together we’ll get through!
     

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