Confessed my fetish and my addiction to my gf

The entire greek alphabet male types, esoteric konwledge about what women's nature and other PUA red pill revelations work only if you want to have some casual sex with the exact kind of women who are into that. With longterm or women who do not have tinder account or hang in bars to have sex with strangers, it is not very useful.

But a bluepill conventional knowledge is similarly if not more useless.

 

If one of their goals is to help people, then yes. they will do it.

Of course they love to talk about it. Woman love to talk and connect with people.
My point here is that talking that stuff with woman is not going to win you points in her attraction to you romantically, but the contrary. Is going to make you look weak and woman don't react good with weak man.

Attack the idea.. not the person.
The fact that i have a different point of view don't make you rigth and me a child that need to grow up.
So... think about that before telling someone that he need to grow up.

I'm talking about ideas, facts. my personal life is not of your business. I can tell you that I'm really succesfull with woman or lie you about it.. it doesn't matter. I always come here with idea to help people in relationships... if I do is because I know and have a lot of experience with it.

 

No she actually have to know about the issue and she have to to help you work on it,if she refused then she was already not a good choice for you.

She may initially not believe in you while you are telling her because she don't know the hidden reality behind porn addiction,most doctors and most peole deny the porn addiction model,so i think she can behave the same way.

The solution is to continue telling, and educating her about porn addiction,take her to nofap forum and other porn recovery sites,let her witness and see post from several thousand fapstraunauts.if she successfully understood,she will agree with you and help you work the issue together.
Best of luck
Stp890.

 

Why have you ignored my comment where I explicitly said that AFTER opening up about certain vulnerabilities I have had women then SPECIFICALLY say they want to date me? Your "point" is in complete contradiction with my actual real life experiences....

 

Do not trust the skinny cook.

 

I read the last word of that line for something else! LOL Too much staring at the screen -- for work! -- today.

 

1- There are a lot of woman that are damaged that will settle for a man that is weak because they feel more confortable with him because he is demaged as her in some way. A damaged woman will also sabotage the relationship with a high value guy because they feel they guy will dump them when they figure out that she is the mess.
2- A high value woman that have her shit together will look for a man that have his shit together. If she sees that the man is weak and have issues she will be turned off.. maybe turned off enough to dump him.

So... if you want to date a damaged girl.. low value then.. maybe you should keep showing weakness and can work good for you. But if you want to get a woman that have his shit together showing weaknes to her is probably going to turn her off.. that's the reality. You can like it or not..

 

Damn, you seem very wise and educated in women interactions. These past few days I've read few of your posts including above and I've learnt a lot man.Especially this meant so much"Woman don't want weak man, they don't respect weak man. Weak man end up in friendzone or without sex."
You are one of the few I'm following now. Thanks for sharing your thoughts