Confessing femdom to a friend

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Cavalry, May 11, 2019.

  1. Cavalry

    Cavalry Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys,

    So here is the thing :

    About 2 months ago i discovered femdom porn. Before that, i only watched normal porn and i was searching for more and a bit more kinky. I won’t go deeper in detail because you might get aroused. Anyway, it escalated to webcam chat and watching videos more and more. I even started to see one of my female friends as a mistress. Should i confess this to her and talk about it? Or just leave it to myself? I don’t know what to do best and i really don’t want to ruin my friendship or loose her as a friend.
     
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  2. Would you be confessing in hopes she might like the idea? Not picking just giving you a self check to see where your mind is.
     
  3. Paul69

    Paul69 Fapstronaut

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    We need (and maybe you also) need more information. What is she like? What is he taste? Just asking as most women in my experience are not into femdom.
     
  4. Cavalry

    Cavalry Fapstronaut

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    Well, somewhere i hope secretly, but i think she will not like the idea in the long run because we are friends for maybe 10 years i quess and it would be very strange i know 100% for sure
     
  5. Cavalry

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    We are friends for 10+ years i quess. She has been in 2 relationships in this period. The first one was with an other friend of mine. She is very confident and kinda bit dominant. Those are one of the things that i like about her and makes me want to fantasize about her dominating me. I think she want to listen to my confession and maybe give an opinion and advice, but she will definitely not like the idea.
     
  6. Cuauhtli

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    Pal, Porn twist our reality. We stop seeing people for what they are and we want them to-be just objects for our desires. from what you are saying, she is not interested in this. Keep a good friend,who is a great treasure.
     
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  7. RobinsonCrusoe

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    Dude, I know it's hard to keep a secret, but, really, NO ONE NEEDS TO KNOW THAT!!!
     
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  8. Cavalry

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    You’re right man. Although there is a need in me to confess because i want to be honest to her and tell her what i’m going through.
     
  9. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    Acting out these fantasies may lead you to further seek out femdom porn. Whatever you decide to do keep that in mind
     
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  11. Cuauhtli

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    I know is not the same. I hope bringing this to the light and But having confess this on this awesome forum might help you feel better. Don’t ruin the friendship by telling her
     
  12. TrueSaiyan

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    If she understands you and is close enough maybe talk to her about it, but just maybe say something light. Like you have a P problem, if she understands and asks what kind then maybe say it to her. If I ever told a family member or friend what I was into right now they would be seeing me in a different way probably in disgust.

    I still can't even tell my best friends that I still watch it.
     

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