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Confidence boost at work

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by IAMlookingforCHANGE, May 5, 2017.

  1. IAMlookingforCHANGE

    IAMlookingforCHANGE Fapstronaut

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    Today was really awesome at work. I had easier conversations with my colleagues, I was eager to ask how they were doing, how their day was, etc. My confidence felt really great, I also worked really hard today to, proud of myself.

    For those wondering, I am a 18 year old male, this is my 5th day of NoFap... I am honestly not 100% sure if this is from NoFap, but I will see through out time. I will study myself in the next couple days, I hope this is consistent.

    Before NoFap it was hard to communicate with some colleagues, I hesitated some times, didn't want to speak...

    I still have a lot of things to improve on though, like communication skills etc, I feel like I could of done better with some social situations at work, but other than that it was great, I am proud of my self. I will write another post within a couple days, I AM reaching day 180, I DO NOT CARE I WILL REACH IT.

    Thank you for reading!
     
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  2. Jungler

    Jungler Fapstronaut

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    I too work in an environment where social skills are needed and definitely have noticed the days when I used to pmo and when I abstained. What I can tell you is that I effortlessly talk with whom ever I encounter with no boundaries.

    Neither do I have social skills. It comes after years of practice and consistence, but there's no need to be the worlds best news anchor or a spokesperson to show sympathy to others.

    You're doing great.
     
  3. Congratulations man! I'm right there behind you. I've been working Saturdays at a camp and am interested to see if talking to coworkers will go any more smoothly tomorrow after having done this challenge for a few days. We will see.......
     

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