Conflicted

Hey what's up guys I've decided to actual make account I have been 4 months into NoFap and I have seen the benefits immensely I have been trying new things like learning how to cook and have been trying to improve my social skills also have been strenthing my relationship with god and my overall mood has been better and I'm more self aware about my mood before Pmo has made me lash out towards my family and friends with by just being easily annoyed and agitated but now I realize I'm more sociable than before with them even my dad has notice.But I'll get to the point I want improve my social skills especially with women and eventually get into a relationship but currently I'm still having PIED so my dilemma is should I talk to women and just start platonic relationships with them until I have healed or should I just try to start dating and see where it goes I already have a list of what I want and don't want in a relationship but another thing is I often try to meet women in the club or bars but that hasn't been to effective but I like to go out to those places because I like to dance anyway your input or suggestions would be great thanks

 

Thanks bro I'm realizing that and stop putting so much pressure on myself

 

Haha actually the funny thing is I'm not gonna toot my own horn but I've been told I'm a great dancer when I go out my friends say how I'm always dancing with girls seductively and how they love it the only problem is I tell myself I need to get drunk to loosen up but the problem lies in that I go overboard and black out and don't remember lol so I'm trying to work on that and eliminating pregamming all together any suggestions?