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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by anony mous, Apr 10, 2015.

  1. anony mous

    anony mous Fapstronaut

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    So I haven't PMOed for the number of days my counter says. But I do have alot of sexual fantasies. I do indulge in them like imagine every detail and all but I stop myself and don't mastubrate to them. Sometimes the precum does come out and then I stop. Is that 'pre-edging'

    And today while asleep I felt like I ejaculated but I'm not sure I did check my pants and I sperm so I guess I did. Does that mean I masturbated?
     
  2. CountryDude

    CountryDude Fapstronaut

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    No, you didn't masturbate.
     
  3. writer239

    writer239 Fapstronaut

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    The fantasies are normal. Your body is used to porn and now that it's not getting it, you're reverting to your imagination. It's fantastic that you're holding back on jacking off to them too. Most of us have a lot of problem with that, especially for six days. Pre-cum isn't "pre-edging" because edging is you jacking off to near completion then stopping before you orgasm. Seeing as how you haven't touched yourself, it doesn't count as edging. You're just extremely aroused and your body is producing pre-cum, so don't worry about it too much.

    Also, don't worry about feeling like you came while sleeping because you eventually will. It's called nocturnal emissions, or wet dreams. It's essentially your body getting rid of all the extra semen that you have built up. A lot of people who have made it to long streaks have said that they started having them at around a week at the earliest, or two weeks in. It doesn't count as masturbation because, again, you're not the one doing it. It's an automatic bodily response that you yourself didn't do by jacking off.

    Congrats on your 6 days man! Keep it up, and I look forward to seeing a post in a few weeks when you've reached your goal! If you ever need someone to chat with, feel free to PM me.
     
    Last edited: Apr 10, 2015

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